I HATE MY VOICE !!! plz help!?!
Question: NO matter where I go, people make fun of how I talk. Here's the thing, when i was little, my vocal chords got damaged and because of that, my voice will change later then other guys. i hate how i have to explain that to everyone but they still dont understand. Today, I went to the grocery store, the lady at the till and the guy behind me commented on my voice saying how i talk like a girl and how im a freak. people do this all the time and i hate it. How can i change my voice??? plz help!!! I am sick of being made fun of and because of this, i always avoid spwaking. i want my voice to change so bad, but it wont. is there a way i can change it??? I HATE IT!!!
Answers: NO matter where I go, people make fun of how I talk. Here's the thing, when i was little, my vocal chords got damaged and because of that, my voice will change later then other guys. i hate how i have to explain that to everyone but they still dont understand. Today, I went to the grocery store, the lady at the till and the guy behind me commented on my voice saying how i talk like a girl and how im a freak. people do this all the time and i hate it. How can i change my voice??? plz help!!! I am sick of being made fun of and because of this, i always avoid spwaking. i want my voice to change so bad, but it wont. is there a way i can change it??? I HATE IT!!!
my sons voice didnt change til he was 19 and he hated it too,unless you speak to a doctor-i wouldnt tamper with the throat as you may do more harm+damage yourself.Just tell those Fwits to grow up,honestly they are small minded people and proberly have defects themselves,lil nastys!
Tell the people who makes fun of you to screw themselves.... nothing perfect about them x
Try finding hormone pills or something.
practice talking in a deeper voice
Your voice will get deeper as you get older. Just try to wait it out.
sweet heart, no one is perfect. i know how that feels to be criticized and it's not fun. but if they can actually say rude things about you like that then they aren't feeling very well about themselves. time will make things better as you said, so just be patient and strong!
It's not your voice you need to change - that will happen in good time. What you need to change is your attitude to other people's reactions.
I can imagine it's embarassing and annoying but try not to let it get to you, if you can get to the point where what other people think or say doesn't bother you then you will realise that your voice doesn't bother you so much anymore either.
just wait ignore EVERYONE AND DONT TALK. get a dry- erase board and dont talk until u realize a change
Tell these people with no hearts that your voice isn't something you can control but that their rudeness could be if they tried. And I really don't think their is a way to change your voice it's kind of out of our hands.
you may be a tenor. those types of ranges are about 15% of the singers out there. learn to sing, loosen your vocal chords, reach for the low notes of your range, and practice talking low.
My voice changed at 15 or thereabouts.
learn sign language and tell people your deaf. Its not hard to learn and in my opinion, its the most beautiful language. And if you don't wanna pretend to be deaf...**** what people think about your voice...cuz they're prolly don't listen well anyway.
scream, speak louder
wer a dress and prance around singing im a lil tea pot
just embrace it. The only reason you probably hate it is because society has told you that you're not supposed to sound like that, and it's been ingrained in your mind to not accept people who have a noticeable difference from the norm. Listen to your voice objectively. Does it have a nice sound? Do you really hate the sound of it or do you hate what people think of you?
People's opinions don't need to matter. True friends won't care what your voice sounds like.
have you tryed gurgling water for 3 minuets?
There's no way to change your voice. I'm sure you sound just fine. I have a male friend who talks VERY flamboyant. He was always embarrassed about it and whenever he would speak to another male he immediately talked differently, trying to make his voice deeper. It was always so awkward to be around him when he did that. I felt so bad that he was so insecure with himself. Just be proud of who you are. It's a lot easier to learn how to deal with it than it is to change it.
SPEAK WITH A SPEECH THERAPIST
it could be worse.....there are worse things in the world, and honestly the people that make fun just have nothin better to d but criticize others...i would call them out on it or flick them off
Next time it happens, play it off like "that's what happens when you date a girl who likes it rough. One minute shes going all slow, the next shes on top of me, choking me and asking me "who's my daddy?" never can tell who the freaks are".
At least that's what I'd do. I'm also oddly outpsoken.
In all seriousness, people like that need to talk their talk to feel better about themselves. Giving into it only makes them want to do it more. Show them that it doesn't bother you/
my freind who is also a guy also talks in a high pitchy voice, people just think he's annoying but the truth is he's a cool kid. I'm not sure if there is a way to change it, but be glad with what you have and know that later it will change. Try to remember that it will eventually change! Try not to take what people say to heart
just try speakind deeper....or wait aorund fro puberty....i used to think I had a guy voice, but now i have a cute, girly voice (not the loud, shrill, squeaky-squaky kind) itll happen soon enough
tell them to FUK A GOAT
dude im 15 an till just like recently everyone thouth i was my mom talkin on the phone. so yea its gettin better but dude im sorry u had that problem when u were young but man it will get better. i know how u feel. and u kno what, i kno its hard cause my voice changed late to, dont worry bout what anyone says. their just stupid. it will be ok bud. i wish i culd help but i kno it will be better soon.
Are you able to visit your GP and see if there is surgery that they can do to alter your vocal cords to make it more masculine??. if he says no then maybe a voice coach can help you. Other than that I'm not sure what else there is. Some people can be mean if someone makes fun of you then just look at them and see what inperfections you can find and pick on them for that. EG: if some fat dude says that to you, say well at least I don't look like a whale, keep your head up and don't feel intimidated the more reserved you are the more people see the weakness and make fun of you. Good luck, and stuff all the rest.
umm.pray to God. he`ll help.i cant help there son. just ignore them and that'll drive them crazy.
I feel for you man
i hated my voice
i got picked for it.
Well only thing you can do is ask your docter if there is something you can do.
Or you can wait and bag on everyone once you get your singer voice.
It happen to me so it'll happen to you.
Tell the people who make fun of you to F*** off!!!! And if they dont like it, then can go f*** a tree. Just be yourself and your voice makes you special. : ). You may not be able to change your voice but you can practice having a deeper voice maybe. As you get older your voice will change, so dont worry. Be proud and stand tall.
Curse them out with you girl voice shoo!
A guy named ****** in my school has a very high pitched voice as if someone had kicked him in his family jewels...but he sometimes tries to mask his voice, or try going deeper. Lots of my friends, around girls, automatically deepen their voice, so it's OK if you do it too...since if your close friends know your "condition" then that's all that matters. Forget the rest, they don't matter!