My man is into romance. I'm not. How do I turn my boyfriend into a freak?!
Question: He likes to "make love" and is very romantic. I'm not. I just want to ****. I don't want to cuddle afterwards or anything. He's so uptight about doing freaky things when we have sex. He won't say nasty things to me, be sexually aggressive, or watch pornos with me. He can't use the "p" word without nervous laughter, and he doesn't know how to tell me with his eyes that he wants to have sex. I like guys that are confident and chill, that look at me like he knows he's about to get some. I know you can't change people, but my dude is a nice guy, and I don't really want to end our relationship. But I need him to be way more freaky... Any suggestions?
Answers: He likes to "make love" and is very romantic. I'm not. I just want to ****. I don't want to cuddle afterwards or anything. He's so uptight about doing freaky things when we have sex. He won't say nasty things to me, be sexually aggressive, or watch pornos with me. He can't use the "p" word without nervous laughter, and he doesn't know how to tell me with his eyes that he wants to have sex. I like guys that are confident and chill, that look at me like he knows he's about to get some. I know you can't change people, but my dude is a nice guy, and I don't really want to end our relationship. But I need him to be way more freaky... Any suggestions?
I don't know, but your question is turning me into a "freak!" You can't be a real girl, its too good to be true.
Take charge. Jump on him one night and do all the things you want done. Tie him up or something. You have to show him what you like, since he's a bit shy.
What a lucky guy. I wish my girlfriend was more agressive. She gets upset when I try to get her to be more assertive. I would say that you should tie him up and hump him raw...he will get used to it...poor bastard!
thats boring. tell him "tonite were gonna try things my way and see how it goes" dont ask him tell him
Ask him outright if he wants to be like that, or if there are certain things he will consider trying. and take it up a level at a time..
your being to demanding to soon.. sounds like your not giving him time to get to know you and your little bedroom habits. he's probabley been in a serious loved up relationship before and likes the "comfort factor" of you being there!!
Remember this is a relationship you want right?? so you cant have everything just YOUR way, you have to take time to understand him.. as he has to take the time to understand you also.
if you cant handle this for whatever reason, i suggest you just break up... as there is no way you'll stay loyal if he wont change...especially when you meet someone who will do the things you desire.
good luck
Say shut up and F me. When he giggles like a b itch, slap him like one and say do it. See what happens.
damn, there's so many girls who complain they havent found sweet guys at all....then there we are! and then some girls just don't like romance. just sex. it's all about sex. ya can't change a man when they don't think it's the right way to act. it's called being a gentlemen and believing in his morals. tell him you think he's too nice and just find some dude that is like you and will probably give you a few STDs.
doesn't every girl want a guy like that?