I need help! Please I'm tiered of this! Help me stop masturbating?!
Question: My name is Thomas and I am 15 years old and I am sadly in the need of help. I have started to masturbated at night and I want to put a stop to it and nip it in the bud, but sometimes I can't control myself...I was wondering if anyone had any advice! or if they can put me in their prayers. I will do the same for you! Please help me! I need to get through this!!!
Answers: My name is Thomas and I am 15 years old and I am sadly in the need of help. I have started to masturbated at night and I want to put a stop to it and nip it in the bud, but sometimes I can't control myself...I was wondering if anyone had any advice! or if they can put me in their prayers. I will do the same for you! Please help me! I need to get through this!!!
Oh, Thomas, sweetie... Calm down. There really is nothing wrong with masturbating. You're probably going through puberty and experiencing some pretty powerful hormones right now. You can't control what your body is doing chemically, but if you really want to stop masturbating, maybe you should talk to your doctor about it. Chances are, he/she will probably tell you the same thing I did, but it might feel better coming from someone you know...
Edit: I just read some of the other responses. Working out increases the amount of testosterone in your body, and since testosterone is the hormone that creates sexual urges, you probably don't want to substitute working out for masturbation...
The guy/girl who responded with the Christian links should consider this: God designed and built the human body, with all of its complexity and wondrousness. It's a beautiful thing. Stop trying to make kids feel bad about their bodies and the chemical changes that are going on inside of them. Puberty is completely natural and necessary--we ALL go through it at one point in our lives. It's how we grow into men and women. It's how we become attracted and attractive to others so we can reproduce. And it's completely driven by hormones. You wouldn't send a young girl links about how to stop menstruating. Shame on YOU!
please god, please help thomas stop getting himself off.
stop! just think of yo momma naked & im pretty sure ull stop! unless u freeky lyk that! =)
As you go through teenage years, the desire to masturbate is not you being bad at self-discipline, it's your hormones that affect you involuntarily. Your libido (sex drive) is active from the time you hit teenager years until the time you die.. there is no "stopping" it unless you get chemically (or physically, god forbid) castrated. You will always get urges to masturbate because it is a healthy system of your body that is beyond your control. Stopping it will lead a depressing and difficult life, such as priesthood.
LOL dont worry about it we all go though it i was the same way so were pretty much everyone else i masturbated everynight when i discoverd it its just hormones and Pubery youll get though it dont worry.
hope you find an answer b/c i need one too
Please god punish Thomas for his selfish act...ha ha...why are you stressing? How much are you masterbating...you know it's normal.....a lot of guys do it....it's better than going out there trying to rip the panties of little virgins....your not hurting anyone. Are you worried your doing it to much or your obssessing? I'll pray for you if that's what you want. Hey!!! Go work out or something find something else to do. Transfer that sexual need to the need to work out....believe me work out can be addicting as well and you will start to want to work out more and you'll be tired so you'll go straight to be ....no hanky panky...good luck.
you silly boy
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Trust me, you can't. Your hormones are going wild, and you can't control yourself. If you duct tape your hands until you're 36, then maybe you'll stop.
Lots of links and helpful advice:
http://lovenbible.blogspot.com
Help for teens:
http://www.teensagainstporn.com
Go out for a jog or play some sports etc. You'll get tired and masturbation will be out of the equation.
OH so many questions brother Thomas..
There are the ultra religious people who tell you that you are going to hell for doing it and the free and willing people who want parents to tell you "it feels good huh?" while you are in the middle of it..
The truth is that no one can tell you whether masturbating is even wrong or not but you. There really isn't anything that anyone can tell you that will MAKE you quit but you can have all of the information and decide for yourself whether this is something that you do or do not want to be doing.
The medical facts are that no one has ever link masturbation to ANY medical problem and, on the contrary, many people feel that it relieves stress, flushes out the reproductive system and etc. No one has ever gone blind or any of the other ridiculous stories parent used to tell their kids about it.
Legally I know no one has been arrested for doing it unless it was on a subway or in a library :-)
Morally, it is your choice.. I don't know of ANY passages in the Bible or Torah that say that God doesn't like it and I don't feel like the God I know and love would be upset about something he made so natural that doesn't hurt anybody (including you).
I will pray the following for you now and for your journey through the rest of your life: May you always have enough conscience, information and feeling to make the decision that is right for you.
aww...it's not going to stop. i don't mean you don't have the willpower, but it's just instinct at this age. and why would you want to? it feels FANTASTIC! why do you need to get through this? masturbating won't give you hairy palms, and you won't be struck down by God, if that's what you're worrying about. it's not a sin. listen to your body...it LIKES that feeling. and i'm not saying you should follow everything that feels good, but masturbation isn't hurting anyone, is it?
at your age, your hormones are raging. sounds like you will have a high sex drive when you get older but hey, as long as you don't get *** on anything -- and wash yourself nice and clean after wards to avoid unpleasant body odor -- then don't worry about it.
Find something to do that will keep your mind from it when you go to bed. Read a book or something.
just don't think and worry too much..
in fact masturbating is actually good for health (of coz i mean not doing it everyday)
next time when you try to do it, just dont put your hands "downstairs" and then go to have a cold shower (i know it is cold now), or you can actually turn on the TV or like going out to some places with ppl around you, or try to so sth else to erase the thought.
good luck!!
Tell your mum that you have a problem, show her how you play with your wanker!
you are now prohibited to touch your penis.. by court order.. if you do... you will be pressed charges state and federal... think as that as your therapeutical induction