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Question: hi, ok its a question about my boyfriend.
when we have sex, he never seems to last very long.
the first time we do it in a night it would last about 20 seconds, but the second or third time would last maybe a minute. i dont really mind it, i just love being with him, it really bothers him though.
are there any techniques he could try to help him last longer? or maybe theres something i could do?
i would really like to hear your suggestion if you have any
thank you..


Answers: hi, ok its a question about my boyfriend.
when we have sex, he never seems to last very long.
the first time we do it in a night it would last about 20 seconds, but the second or third time would last maybe a minute. i dont really mind it, i just love being with him, it really bothers him though.
are there any techniques he could try to help him last longer? or maybe theres something i could do?
i would really like to hear your suggestion if you have any
thank you..

well, you can have him masterbate until he c*ms once. You can also give him a bj (B*ow j*b) then pull away and then sqweeze him. But you cant do the 2nd one really fast. It sounds weird I know but It works.

kegel exercises

keep on doing it, and turn out the lights so he can't see want is going on.

He may be getting a bit 'over stimulated'. Wearing a condom will reduce the sensation for him (a lot)...making him last longer (got to work harder to get the same results).

you ride him, have him jack off about 20 minutes before, penis ring

sounds like premature ejaculation, talk to him. has he always had this, is he under stress? the second and third time should take considerably longer.

How much further do you get,pass the 3rd or forth orgasm?Try keep going on and on if the problem continues take him to the doctor or maybe you are just too hot and irresistible.

to many years of abuse with his hand?

The more friction is applied to the penis, the faster you come. I'm a virgin but my experience from masturbation is that you do come in about all of 20 seconds if you do it very fast; slow stimulation makes it last longer. Tell him to try that and see if it helps.

Note: going slowly takes a lot of willpower because when you're aroused the instinct is to try to get as intense stimulation as possible. It might be easier at first if you were on top. Try going down on him in the cowgirl position (sitting up, back straight) and rock back and forth as slowly as possible, pushing forward as much as possible and then arching your back as far back as you can. Each motion should take a good 4-5 seconds. I THINK that might work.

There is one option that may be worth considering for this problem. A class of antidepressant drugs known as SSRIs are renowned for causing sexual dysfunction eg loss of libido, erectile dysfunction, reduced sensation, anorgasmia etc It may be worth going to see a doctor about this, as I've read that low doses of these medications have been used to treat premature ejaculation. It would mean prescribing off-licence though, so don't get your hopes up.

premature ejaculation in men are both affected by physical and psychological means. tell our boyfriend that he need to control his urge for an orgasm. inhale via the nostrils then exhale using the mouth, this releases tensions and would help in the control. also, whenever he feels he's about to come, he should stop and do foreplay with you to let the feeling subside, then he could do the thrusting again. if a man thrust it puts tension in his inner thighs and pelvic muscles making him come early, so i also suggest from time to time you do the girl on top position to relieve him of the stress in his pelvis.

make him wear a strap on its the only way

please don't be so sad like ever thing it all gets better with practise.that is all it is about

I think he needs to do it more often to get better at it

try and have sex every day for 2 weeks i bet after the second week he will be a little fed up and last for ages

Please dont let him think it matters to you, at least for the time being, sounds like he just needs a bit of support and confidence.

Flip from being REALLY sexy to being really horrid and freaking him out!! Get on top and let him get all excited seeing you in all your splendor then when hes gettin close fart a little (not a lot you dont wanna kill him) just let a little windy pop pop out... go down on him, then again when hes gettin close stop and give your nose a pick, Jump his bones and hump away and then when hes about to pop start talking about his mum, shoes and tampons etc It'll either have him hot and cold all night or so emotionally scared he will never hump again!! Either way worth a go it'll be fun!

What the ****!!
Girl get him some viagra!!
That is nothing.
It should last atleast 10 minutes.





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