Are all boys so needy to make out the way he is?!
Question: Every boy that I have ever dated except for one has had some kind of obsession with making out. It seems as if it's all they ever want to do when I'm with them. My current boyfriend will talk to me on the phone just fine, but when we are together, he just wants to make out, though he knows I would rather be able to talk. It's to the point where I would rather talk on the phone to him because then he can't be snogging me every chance he gets. I don't mind kissing but since he kisses me so much it is becoming less special, and I'm not feeling as many sparks as I used to when we kiss cause it's become so frequent. He tells me he cares about me for who I am and passed experiences have proved it... but it still feels lustful of him. I don't want to judge him but it's difficult not to.
What do you think he is thinking? Any advice? thank you!
Answers: Every boy that I have ever dated except for one has had some kind of obsession with making out. It seems as if it's all they ever want to do when I'm with them. My current boyfriend will talk to me on the phone just fine, but when we are together, he just wants to make out, though he knows I would rather be able to talk. It's to the point where I would rather talk on the phone to him because then he can't be snogging me every chance he gets. I don't mind kissing but since he kisses me so much it is becoming less special, and I'm not feeling as many sparks as I used to when we kiss cause it's become so frequent. He tells me he cares about me for who I am and passed experiences have proved it... but it still feels lustful of him. I don't want to judge him but it's difficult not to.
What do you think he is thinking? Any advice? thank you!
Chelisey.... keep up your guard dear. Once he scores it a whole differently ball game, and the one that could be the one to pay would likely be you. Hold your ground, most want one thing and i don't have to tell you what that is dear. Good for You. Your smart, and i commend you for being a wise and intelligent young lady. ood Luck! God Bless
Oh, honey, just wait. It gets worse.
Boys are horny. They think about sex CONSTANTLY. If he cant do anything but make out with you, you need to think about what his true motives with you might be. Communication is important in ANY relationship, have you tried having a talk with him?
Did you ever push him away or say STOP?
It sounds like you are giving in.
Then, try making the move first.
Or if it really bothers you, threaten to dump him. Then he will stop.
Well boys just wanna do that but u kinda got to put IT up on a pedestal
most boys are mostly interested in getting off
he believes more in ejaculating than abstinence
maybe not sex but masturbating is what he is thinking judging by what you are describing
as a guy that's my opinion
if you aren't going to accommodate him it would be best to end it now
He's horny and all he wants from you is what is between your legs
Give him a box of tissues, a bottle of hand lotion and show him the door.
I had a boyfriend just like that. We were only about 13 so we'd sneak away from school and make out on the sports oval. Then he constantly wanted to kiss. It was winter and I got windburn and it hurt to kiss so I told him. Weeks later he asked if it had gone and I said no. It had gone I just enjoyed having a break from kissing.
I knew it was the wrong thing to do but god a girl needs some space.