Guys checking me out?!
Question: Theres lots of guys older then me checking me out when I skate or ride bike at the beach park. Why do they look at me and not other kids? Whats bad about talking to them? Just talk.
Answers: Theres lots of guys older then me checking me out when I skate or ride bike at the beach park. Why do they look at me and not other kids? Whats bad about talking to them? Just talk.
Sounds like a combination of your appearing to be especially vulnerable (like a lack of friends) and something else about you that the older guys relate to. Nothing wrong with talking. Just try to stay aware of where you are and what's going on, OK?
i guess they think you're cute
do not talk to them
Ignore those guys an just have fun at the beach. Do not talk to them or show any interest at all. They may be pedophiles or sexual predators who enjoy watching you. They are likely waiting for the time that you will speak to them. Do not give them the opportunity to kidnap you, rape you and possibly kill you. If they show signs of approaching you, get far, far away.If you see them approaching some other kid, step in and help. You cannot be too safe.
well the guys could be gay
which i don't think they are because some of my friends are guy and they just walk right up to a guy and just start hitting on them.
they could be making fun of you since they are older and older guys tend to make fun of younger ones.
I'm not saying that to be negative,just to be honest.
if you feel comfortable talking to them then you should talk to them,you could always walk up to them in a group of your friends.
or you could just ignore them.
it's up to you.
There's nothing inherently wrong with just talk. I, though, would question why older guys (and you don't say how much older) would 'hit' on a kid. That's pedophilia to me. They need to be looking/talking with guys their own age.
Just don't let one of them talk you into anything you don't feel comfortable with.
They may be checking you out . But is it possible that you are just being self-conscious?
well if you were straight you probably wouldnt care, and you'd think there dumb and stupid or you'd just care less.
but since you have to lose 5 points over something that you should care less about, or not even notice your probably gay.
hehe.
i do it all the time so don't worry about this its normal for us guys to prev you must be cute,show me a pic i will rate you
umm i think i am in the same situatioon but totally differnet i need to tell someone i'll find someone to tell later but umm if tgthey r way older than u than i would hope that u keep ur distance now if u go a couple of feet close to them and u have some with u that thats perfect go ahead but now if u go by ur self htey might takre u and i am pretty sure u love ur life!! so its not bad for u to talk to them just be careful and be ready to run yell scream kick and what ever else is neccessary
If they're just looking at you, don't worry about it. They probably think you're cute. If you talk to them, just be sure it's where other people are around, just in case they have bad intentions.