Why doesn't he last as long?!
Question: When my husband and I first met we had great sex that seemed to last forever. Now it seems like it's over so fast. I don't get it, why can't he go as long, he's only 21. I know he's a little embarrassed about it too, but it's really affecting our sex life.
Answers: When my husband and I first met we had great sex that seemed to last forever. Now it seems like it's over so fast. I don't get it, why can't he go as long, he's only 21. I know he's a little embarrassed about it too, but it's really affecting our sex life.
tell him to slow down and everytime he gets close to his peak to stop and reposition for a second or three...After a few times of delaying his "O" he will develop more control.
I know my wife always wears a smile because I can last forever whether it be slow and sexy or really pounding it good if the mood is such...I have to get past a few close calls sometimes and then I can "go" all night.
get a prostrate check up, maybe he is tired of you, try something new to spice up your sex life like latex masks and whips
tell him to masturbate 30 min- 1hour before sex, or use condoms that make the penis numb
have more sex...if you have less sex then he'll come quicker
or maybe tell him to masturbate 1~2 hours before sex then he'll last longer
and eat some beef, oysters etc.....it'll boost libido / energy etc
Heya i can't really help but my fiance, also 21 has the same problem. It's literally less than 3 minutes. He won't go to a doctor or anything, and i understand why but it is quite annoying. He is really getting depressed over it and doesn't want to do it as much any more. He also says he feels bad for me because i don't finish. I love him to bits and i just want to help him. Please feel free to let me know how it goes and what can help it.
The more worried you are the less wil be the performance. Abstain for a few days and do not think about it. When you feel spontaneously, go ahead without a preconditioned mind ,in a relaxed way. You will enjoy.
There are very simple excersises that guys can do to prolong thier performance by strenghtening the muscle at the base of the penis which controls urine and semen flow. The exc. has a specific name which I'm sorry to say I can't think of right now, but anyway:
Next time he is urinating have him stop the flow and hold it, just to get an idea of the muscle he's using. After that he should practice constricting and holding that muscle and then relaxing it. He can do it anywhere anytime and obviously nobody will know. Do about 10 reps 3 - 4 times a day to start with. After a couple of weeks of doing this every day he should be able to last longer in bed.
Oh and start off slow, just like any muscle if you work out too hard in the beginning it will get sore.
Good luck.
imma tell u wat to do talk to him about this see if there is help and if dat dont work theres alwayz the cheating method