Is it normal for a guy to have low self confindence?!


Question: i always feel like i cant do anything and my freinds think im really good at art and stuff and i am never confindent enuf to ask a girl i like out plz help im only 14


Answers: i always feel like i cant do anything and my freinds think im really good at art and stuff and i am never confindent enuf to ask a girl i like out plz help im only 14

Hello (again) Alex
It is not unusual for young fellahs to have low self confidence. Sometimes they find it difficult to make conversation when they meet someone. That's because they are worried about how nervous they feel. To overcome this - when you are introduced - say nice to meet you ..... (person's name) Saying person's name helps you to remember it.
To continue conversation - ask questions- have you always lived in ..?.(name of your town). what is your favorite class here at school? - are you on the sports team? .. questions like that. Person you are speaking to will be pleased you are interested in him/her and will think you are a really interesting person. Be sure to listen to their answers as that will give you an opportunity to ask other questons.Try this Alex & let me know how you get on. All the best.

You are only 14.

Yes, it's normal. Give yourself some time.

You will find someone who you are comfortable around, one day. Remember that it's probably the same for them too.

I'm 27 and still have trouble with women.

It's called being shy you will grow out of it. It's part of puberty.

Yes we all get those days or weeks what ever

You just have to know, as I can see you do, that it is happening to you.

Take a deep breath and get out a stupid game for your computer one you haven't played in ///// well for ever

And see how stupid it is Now you know what stupid is and it sure ain't you is it???

Not Dr. Christina Troy!





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