Do i have sexual problems?!
Question: I'd say it started when I was 19...the first time I ever saw a girl naked in front of me was at my friends house when they were playing a drinking game, and girls were stripping, but I didnt feel anything..no sexual arousal. I was also completely sober, and I'm NOT gay, so i dont know wtf the problem is. Maybe I should just chop my dick off, if its not going to work to my benefit. (mad)
Answers: I'd say it started when I was 19...the first time I ever saw a girl naked in front of me was at my friends house when they were playing a drinking game, and girls were stripping, but I didnt feel anything..no sexual arousal. I was also completely sober, and I'm NOT gay, so i dont know wtf the problem is. Maybe I should just chop my dick off, if its not going to work to my benefit. (mad)
nothing is wrong with you. you arent supposed to be attracted to every girl you see. some guys just are more selective about what and who turns them on. If i were to see a naked guy chances are i wouldn't be turned on right away and i'm a girl. I might think they are attractive but that doesn't mean i want to have sex with them. so nothing is wrong with you, just wait til you find the right person and you will feel it.
maybe you didn't find her attractive, maybe you had too much alcohol!
AHH no nothing is wrong with you.You just did not find her sexually attractive.Dont cut anything off.
Do you take antidepressants? Medications are the number one reason for ED in men. If you take no medications I would suggest you discuss this with your doctor because at your age it is not common.Alcohol can also cause this problem
Hold on now, just because you once saw a naked girl and were not aroused, does not mean there is anything wrong with you. That experience means nothing. Maybe your body parts knew in advance you were not going to have sex with the woman. Maybe there was not attraction . that's also normal. Don't be so hard on yourself, no pun intended, just relax and don't draw any conclusions from one episode of a meaningless random indent.
maybe you were shocked that the girls were taking their clothes off so openly. if you don't have any problems masturbating I'm sure with the right partner and the right time i am sure it will rise to the occasion
Hi Velious
Sorry to hear you think you have a problem. I don't think you will get a useful answer here in answers. You will probably get some stick - like some saying you're gay.. etc.. That won't help you.
Maybe you might find an answer on google but best option is to get some professional help. Perhaps you could start with your doc he can refer you to the right person. All the best.
first off are we talking lack of an erection or simply a lack of sexual desire,
if it's a lack of an erection you shouldn't be too surpised of worried, it's not like you where in a sexual situation,
if it does happen in a sexual situation it could be just nerves, it happened to me my first few times until i got more comfortable,
if it was a lack of sexual desire thats can be normal too, some people can only get off in certain ways of by doing certain things, it is perfectly normal and will probably go away when you get more sexually active and experiment in different ways
hope this puts you mind at ease a bit,
no no no u dnt need to chop off ur dick bc u maybe needed her to do something like an hj and bj to u then maybe u would u know
maybe you have your heart set on someone else? i know guys who get aroused for no reason... maybe it works the other way around