So I go down on a guy for about 30 min...?!


Question: He has already told me he can't peak with this but I am wondering if I was doing it right. I mean if he doesn't stop me for 30 min it must be ok right? I used my tounge, played with his balls, ocastionally used my hand, hummed and I freaking deep throated and only got a few moans. I made sure to keep my teeth covered. But he wasn't even completely hard after 30min... he was hard enough but not as hard as possible and I did everything. What is the deal did he enjoy it ... did I do something wrong?


Answers: He has already told me he can't peak with this but I am wondering if I was doing it right. I mean if he doesn't stop me for 30 min it must be ok right? I used my tounge, played with his balls, ocastionally used my hand, hummed and I freaking deep throated and only got a few moans. I made sure to keep my teeth covered. But he wasn't even completely hard after 30min... he was hard enough but not as hard as possible and I did everything. What is the deal did he enjoy it ... did I do something wrong?

Here is an idea, ask him. Guys love the idea of teaching you something Ask him what he likes. Your probably not doing anything wrong, but if you are you should know. Communication is the key. He may just not be that vocal during sex or during head. Some guys, believe it or not, don't like head. The biggest thing is talk about it.

he might be thinking of another woman......

He was just probably speech less i would off been.

I think he enjoyed it. Don't stress over it. Question for you, Is he going down on you for 30 minutes?

Hmm, well I can think of three things:
1- He's gay
2- He masturbated or had sex before meeting up with you
3- He's impotent (Get him some viagra or something if that's the case)

did he drink b4?

he's not really too old if you know what i mean. maybe he just needs to finish the job himself.

He probably enjoyed it. I mean, it's possible that you are just trying too hard, so there is no continuous motion. It's important to get a little bit of a groove every once in awhile so he can get into it. Also, make sure you use some suction, and just relax, because if you're nervous, it probably shows. Some guys are also just more sensitive to that than others, and deep throating isn't always the answer. The tip is really the most sensitive area, so alternate the sucking with some licking on the tip, and see how that goes. And I really hope he reciprocates for all that hard work!!

If he says he can't normally finish with oral, he's probably not kidding.

Oral is very sensual, exquisite, wet, erotic ...

but its not usually that fast or hard.

If he needs more 'tightness' or speed, you're not going to get him off via oral alone.

That said, if you're committed to trying:
- go for a more rhythymic movement once he's pretty excited. If you keep changing it up, even if its good, you won't get him over the top.
- use a hand-mouth combination, where your hand makes a tube with your mouth at the end. well ... that's assuming you can't just deep throat for 5 minutes which would probably cover it.

No. from what you have explained, majority of guys and men would have actually shot their load by then. you did nothing wrong, it's just that there is a psychological aspect to this and MAYBE the guy himself has unresolved "issues" dealing with this emotionally or physically. Not every guy or man gets off on BJ's because of a preference??? Hmmm.
But next time, ask the player or partner what would his poison or pleasure be so that you may both enjoy the experience together simultaneously.

OMG. Will you marry me?

look under his "head" and there will b a kinda line between where the head seperates into 2 curves lick that n he'll thank u!!

marry me

he's gay.

I'm thinking maybe you should have painted his toenails somewhere in there....

I would have to judge that for myself, call me.

Sounds like you're a dream, I mean you're doing everything right.

Uh, I got nothing else to say, wow. Maybe explain that it would really turn you on if he would complete the mission. Beg him to do it.

he enjoyed it but he is just not able to climaz with it, it is nothing u are doing it is how his body it. the way he masturbates could be a reason, this is because he is used to cuming with his hand, he knows how to touch,grad, press on his member and when u are going down on him u are not touching,pressing,grabbing like he does so it is hard for him to ***.but is is not your fault at all. it is a human condition

He enjoyed it well But for not getting hard, He may have mind depression. Tell him to do some anal exercises to make it hard

He is weird, Marry me please

i'm sure he ejoyed it, who wouldn't
maybe he just can shoot under those circumstances
some guys do get c*m shy
you did nothing wrong
i hope he thanked you





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