Am I a loser if I rather rub one out to porn than to have sex with my wife?!


Question: Yeah you are a loser dude. wtf is wrong with you? You're a weirdo if you'd rather spank your monkee that poke a real live vagina.


Answers: Yeah you are a loser dude. wtf is wrong with you? You're a weirdo if you'd rather spank your monkee that poke a real live vagina.

no way.

just dont forget about your wife :P

You are not a loser, but this mean you are not physically attractive to your wife if you are she will begin to feel that way. Maybe their are some other things you can do to get you in the mood to have sex with her. becuz this could end up bad sex plays a good role into the marriage life.

u watch porn and ur married?
dont let your wife know
and nothings wring with mastrabting, but ur wife would get mad if she found out that you would rather be mastrabating then having sex with her.

No, i wouldn't say you're a loser, maybe she just doesn't rock ya boat anymore, or you simply haven't got the energy to do the deed anymore..
Perhaps you two need a bit of spice in the old bedroom huh..
Good luck mate..

u r no loser...but u r a porn pervert n addict.......sorry to say that.....u need to give up porn n go please yr wife be4 she finds another penis

no your not, i masterbate to porn myself , i have better orgasms , well usualy i have to masterbate after hubby is done anyway

definitely not. alot of guys are like that. it could be several things. maybe she doesn't go out of her way to pleasure you. this one might be tough to swollow, but it might be the case. maybe you dont find her attractive anymore. maybe she just isn't the dime peice you once married. but if thats not the case, try foreplay and playing sex games. i'm sure you can get a normal love life with her once again. but remember, she has needs too

No, but it probably means you have some issues to deal with.

By the way, a fair number of women here ask about why their men are doing this, and you would do them a _great_ service if you could add in some comments any feelings you have regarding _why_ you'd rather go solo. Is it performance pressure? The hassle of all the build up? Are you less turned on with your wife, or is it just less stressful solo?

Lookit. You aren't a "loser" but you have issues you need to work on. How would YOU feel if your wife wrote in here asking if she was a loser because she would rather be having sex with herself or someone else because YOU sucked in bed or you weren't turning her on anymore? Think about it. Marriage is commitment and it isn't all about you. You aren't 17 anymore. There is a saying that when sex is good it's only about 1% of the marriage, but when it's bad it's about 99%. It sounds like, if you aren't giving your wife enough sex because you would rather be wacking it to a bimbo whore who probably wouldn't do you anyway, then your wife probably is getting pretty fed up with you herself. I'd look into couples therapy and stop looking at the porn until you can hack it in bed with your wife. Sorry dude.

According to all the answers I got about my husband masturbating when I don't want him to, I think he would rather not do it with me! because I am a mental case, I only worry about staying in perfect shape and working out for 4-5 hours and not eating.
I never want to have sex.





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