Should i get a circumcision?!
Question: well, im 18, my parents wanted to wait until now and give me the choice. what should i do? snip it or leave it? i don't have any problems cleaning it, and it doesn't bother me, but i've heard that woman are repulsed by the foreskin. what do you guys think?
Answers: well, im 18, my parents wanted to wait until now and give me the choice. what should i do? snip it or leave it? i don't have any problems cleaning it, and it doesn't bother me, but i've heard that woman are repulsed by the foreskin. what do you guys think?
Listen to what you have said. You have no problem with it but you hear that women don't like foreskin on guys. So if a girl doesn't like something else on your body then you are willing to cut it off. That is crazy. If a girl doesn't like you for who you are then to h#@* with her. God created man and designed the male and female bodies perfectly. Where do we get off thinking we can make it better by amputating part of it because we think it will look better that way. Come on think. What if you find a girl that likes the foreskin on the penis, but oh wait you cut it off for some other girl who didn't. Think long and hard before you do this circumcision thing. What if during the operation the doctor slips and messes up some nerves or something like that. LEAVE your PENIS the way nature intended.
I heard it's very painful to have done and the results won't look like the same if you had it done as a newborn.
not gay here. but if a woman is dating you . just because your dick is circumcised or not.. is she really worth it? i dont think so. if your clean that the main thing. dont let the cheese grow.
good grief are you nuts? at YOUR age? if it ain't broke, don't fix it. move on.
NO!!!! its very painful. But first of all why? Women love the foreskin.. It gives them extra pleasure and it keeps your phermones in so the girls get aroused by them! Girls in the US are taught wrong so they think its bad..
DON'T DO IT.
1st - You will lose a lot of sensitivity
2nd - Forskin = less friction = more pleasure
3rd - Any woman that doesn't like you for who you are, hood or no hood isn't worth it
4th - There are no real health benifits to being cut
5th - Any slight benefits there may be are not worth the risk of complication
6th - American girls and women were taught that it was nasty, but most have never seen a anatural penis.
7th - Pheremones - the little things that make you irresistable to women...
I think you get the idea, I could go on...
Do what makes you happy, perhaps wait a few more years to decide as there is no undo.
Are you glad your parents were nice enough to leave the choice to you?
My personal experience with dating as I am uncut too. There are two kinds of women, hook ups and girlfriends. Hook ups who cares what they think, they are disposable and the will never know cuz they only see it hard. Girlfriends don't give to sh!ts, they are with you cuz they like you as a person. But I have never had a girl say anything negative about me being uncut.
But I am married now and out of the game, I am having a son next week and I won't be cutting him.
I would generally agree with the reply about condoms ... having suffered like that every since I started having sex and using condom to stop the baby thing happening. However this is only true if you are in the percentage that have a relatively long foreskin that does not retract at all over the glans when erect - as with me.
If you are lucky enough to only have enough foreskin to cover your glans when flaccid and "lose" it when erect I wouldn't bother - from what I hear masturbation is much easier and more satisfactory with some foreskin. And sex is neither here nor there when it pulls back during ... and you have the benefit of the extra nerve endings in the foreskin that's there.
Having said all that ... its down to personal choice and if you feel more (visually) comfortable cut ... then go for it. Whatever you take into account I would put more weight on any comments you receive from those who have gone through circumcision a little later in life - 20s, 30s or even older because they will have experienced both being uncut and cut. Don't put any weight on those rabid pro or antis that you may get answering your question.
All the best - whatever you decide.
More and more men are uncircumcised, so women better get used to the natural look. Since they don't spend a lot of time on their knees staring at naked guys' tools, they really don't have any basis for comparison that would lead them to be "repulsed" by a foreskin and not by a circumcised penis. In any case, during intercourse, I don't think they can even tell whether you're circumcised or not.
As long as you don't have any problems as you are, I'd leave it be and not worry about what girls you've never even met yet might think about it. "Love me, love my rod!"
Only shallow American women (or very religious Muslim or Jewish women) don't like uncut guys. Most people that say 'yes' to your question say it only becase they are circumcised themselves.
It's really up to you. Personally, if it's working fine and you have no problems, I would say to leave it as is, simply because the operation is somewhat painful for about 2 weeks. However, the end results are usually good. There really are some strong advantages to being circumcised, and some other advantages to being intact. If you really want some advice, talk it over with your parents and then decide what's best for you.
Personally, I don't notice that much of a difference between sex, masturbation, etc. when I am cut versus before I was.
Would you choose to have another part of your body, say a finger or ear perhaps, removed for no reason what so ever ? I think not !
American women are not used to seeing a natural un mutilated penis, unlike most of the rest of the worlds female population that get to enjoy them !
Why would you want to put yourself through so much pain and agony for something that is totally not necessary ? As you will no doubt know a properly working foreskin retracts naturally when you have an erection anyway so there is no difference between your normal penis and a guy that has had a portion of his cut away.
If your girlfriend, partner of whoever can't deal with or is totally ignorant of the fact that you have a normal penis then in my view she probably isn't worth bothering about anyway.
Keep your foreskin, enjoy your foreskin and try and educate a few more women about the fun you can have with a foreskin !
Don't do it! That is my advice. The foreskin is actually a wonderful thing. It is there for a reason! My husband is not circumcised and I am very thankful this is the case. The role of the foreskin has only recently been studied and they found that it is actually an extremely erogenous part of a man's body. It protects penis and keeps it lubricated. Without it men experience loss of sensation due to drying and callousing over time. The foreskin also has more nerve endings then any other part of the penis!
It plays a very important role in sexual intercourse. For women, sex with an intact man is much more pleasurable! During intercourse, the intact penis glides back and forth inside its skin sheath, greatly reducing the friction between the penis and vaginal walls. Sex is also far more lubricated. Check out this website:
http://www.coloradonocirc.org/foreskin.p...
http://www.cirp.org/library/anatomy/milo...
Only a small minority practice male circumsision in the world, compared to the 85% who don't. The roots of this practice stems soley from religious reasons. The medical establishment has been trying to come up with reasons to justify it for the last century (including to reduce masturbation and to prevent epilepsy), but to no avail. I think you are incredibly lucky that you were given a choice in this matter. I think you should read up some more on the role of the foreskin before you decide you really want to give it up. You said yourself that it doesn't bother you. My advice again - DON'T DO IT!
Many women who get to interact sexually with an intact penis prefer the natural state. Don