Can I blame this on hormones?!
Question: I've been pretty depressed lately and just moody, not for any real reason. Though I am in the closet and that can get kinda crappy, doing all that lieing and pretending. But my parents are real worried about me. I'm going through puberty now, and am wondering if I can blame it on hormones? Just so I can get them to leave me alone.
Answers: I've been pretty depressed lately and just moody, not for any real reason. Though I am in the closet and that can get kinda crappy, doing all that lieing and pretending. But my parents are real worried about me. I'm going through puberty now, and am wondering if I can blame it on hormones? Just so I can get them to leave me alone.
You can blame it on hormones. You are going through a lot of changes.. During puberty you may experience great changes in emotion. It is all normal. And don't worry about coming out. Every person has the right to decide when it is time.
ur behavior sounds like it probably is hormones causing it, or maybe you're wondering how to live ur life after u move out
DUDE! come out of the closet of under the stairs and im sure you'll feel alot better.. you cant blame it on hormones since your sexual orientation isnt really hormonal, its physcoligical you have to get some help if your not going to live your life like you want to... good luck
Awww! Well It could be that. You could try talking to someone. Like a best friend, or a guidance counselor. I'm going through puberty myself, so I'm not exactly sure. But its good to talk to someone, and to get a secound opinion. Your not alone! =D!
You may not truly be gay/bi. A lot of times when people go through puberty they think about what things would be like with the opposite sex. It's just a part of your mind experimenting. You do not truly know your sexuality one hundred percent until you completely done growing.
As for the being depressed part, I think it has a lot to do with hormones and also the fact that you're confused about some things. You need to find someone to talk to. Email me if you want.
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Sorry to say, but it is only part hormones. But blaming it on hormones doesn't help. You need to be open with yourself and let you make the decisions. Your parents will understand if you just explain things to them. But don't blame the hormones. Its just a cop out to make yourself think your okay. You won't be okay until you deal with what makes you depressed. If I were you, I'd come out because keeping a secret like that will just stress you out further and that won't help at all. Also, try a psychologist at your school. They can help you feel better by putting things in perspective for you. Hope this helps
You do not say how old you are but when the time is right you will come out of the closet and will be much happier. It is hard to keep things a secret and always lying about things. Try to focus your attention on a hobby or spend some time with your buddies. If you keep you mind occupied you will not have time to worry about all these changes in your body. Just be true to yourself and make sure you come out the right way- do not let it slip out when your angry or upset. It doesnt make it easier.
It's the closet, dude! You're living a lie!!!
email me through answers. I know what you are going through, and yes it does suck.
Yep, you've got two strikes against you: puberty (and the hormones), and dealing with your sexuality. I went through the same thing. Let me offer this advice: BE yourself. You can be gay. And no one has to know except you. Yes, it is lying and pretending to your parents, and eventually you're gonna have to deal with that. But, you've got enough on your plate right now. You're young, and there's plenty of time to deal with other issues. Believe me, I've been there. It's not fun, and you have my sympathy. And my support. Right now just concentrate on being the best YOU that you can be.