Is this gay?!
Question: well iam 12 and the other day I went to my friend tonys house (he is 13) and I spent the night and when we was about to go to bed he took off his pants and he was wearing spiderman briefs and I just looked at him and said OH MY GOSH and lafghed for a secound then I was like with that looks preaty cool. Then the next day I woke up late and I could not find him so I was going to go play on the computer and he was jacking off to a video on youtube of a boy in his white undies and I was like dude what the hell and he told me he wasnt gay just curious about boys who wear briefs. and the bad part was i walked in on him wearing briefs so I lefty so I want to know is he gay.
Answers: well iam 12 and the other day I went to my friend tonys house (he is 13) and I spent the night and when we was about to go to bed he took off his pants and he was wearing spiderman briefs and I just looked at him and said OH MY GOSH and lafghed for a secound then I was like with that looks preaty cool. Then the next day I woke up late and I could not find him so I was going to go play on the computer and he was jacking off to a video on youtube of a boy in his white undies and I was like dude what the hell and he told me he wasnt gay just curious about boys who wear briefs. and the bad part was i walked in on him wearing briefs so I lefty so I want to know is he gay.
Don't listen to a lot of other people. At 13 all kind of stuff is happening to your body and we feel really strange. It's probably just a phase he is going through - many people are quick to jump to conclusions and it's important we don't.
All 13 year olds need to explore things, don't write him off. He's not necessarily gay!
Yes, it sounds like it.
lol funny story, who knows he mite b gay dont bring it up around him and dont make fun of him being it
ummm...... ok. If that happended to me i wouldn;t be his friend anymore. And why is this posted in emn's health?
probally
lol yeah sounds gay to me
rofl....i think hes not g@y..
Lies, Lies ... Lies
Nope. If he was masturbating to naked pictures of some hot woman, then he would be gay. Oh wait...
my oponion is that he is. thats gay porn. imm 13 and i watch porn but of girls and boys, or just girls
but there is a slight chance that hes not because at this age is the age where boys (like me) start getting interested in thier penis and start mastrabating
Since he is so young, her is probably just curious, and through your really prepubescent stages he probably gets horny off of just about anything, i wouldnt worry,
But tell him next time he decides to have a sleepover to keep it in his pants till you leave :P
that dude sounds full blown faggish
yeah he is.
he seems to be aroused by other males.
you should be sensitive to his sexual orientation.
idk maybe he is bcause thats kind of creepy. but i do wonder do boys look at eachother in the shower. maybe their courious on how big they are idk,lol
hes obviously strange
maybe's he's just in touch with his feminine side :P
either way you shouldn't stop being his friend (unless he tries to hit on you or something ><)
try asking him!!! if he's your true friend he'll tell you
seems pretty obvious...yes.
Well, he could be, its a possibility. but he's at the age when boys and girls get curious about their bodies and what they like. Maybe he just wanted to test it out and see for himself >,<
sexual preference is not really determined until the 20's
you need to have all kinds of sexual experiences to really determine a person's preference
at 13 he sound curious
lost of boys masturbate to all kinds of fantasies
don't judge him on that alone
That dude is a full on gaylord. Stay away from him at all costs, or everyone will think you are gay too. You don't want to go through school with people thinking you're a gay boi.
no i dont think so because alot of young males might want to look at other peoples parts and at first it may turn them on and some boys your age even think about sexual activitys when masturbating its all about learning things about your body
if you want to test if he is gay stay at his again but play with his penis and yours and ask him to give you a BJ and if he says yes then you know coz most lads are repulsed by that if he says no then say "just testing an tell him it freaked you out and tell him bout the question" this could make you best m8s or enemys -approach wiv caution
well take it from a guy who is your age and has experience. he might be bisexual. ive done that before too. dont be mean about it because he will get made fun of alot for it.
sounds like it. im a 12 yr old girl and i would NOT go out with a guy that wears spidey breifs. my lil bro is 6 and he wears them. they are even spidey!!! so yeah. i would say he is gay. he is just trying to hide it frim you so you will still be his friend...
Well, many would jump to the conclusion that he's gay. But for his age it's okay to be alittle curious. Many people will just grow out of the "curious" phase and choose wether he's gay or straight. When i was about 12, i had a little experience but now thats over and i realized that i was just curious and that i'm really straight. It's nothing to worry about, he should grow out of it soon.
It's not necessarily gay.
Not necessarily..... if its bothering you that badly ask him... but keep an open mind....dont stop being his friend.
Wow thats craziiii:]]
outstanding faggotry
Yup Prop Curisody is nasty.............................For dudes any way
During puberty it is quite normal for you to get turned on by all sorts of things, you are full of hormones and are only beginning to explore your sexual feelings. It is really common to get aroused by all manner of strange things and it is way too early to be able to say you are gay or straight. You are both of an age where you are starting to have emotions you have never had to deal with before, and biological urges that have yet to find there final outlet.
If I were you I would talk to your friend, put any embarrassment behind you and carry on having a normal (non sexual) relationship. When you are both older and more mature things will become less confused and frightening, and you may find your assumptions were far too hasty. In any event, one day you will probably look back on this and laugh some years from now. There is nothing either good or bad about any particular sexual orientation, every one has there own path that is right for them.
You will enjoy growing up, the next 5 or 10 years are probably the happiest and most exciting time of your life. Be open minded and happy, avoid doing anything that 'feels wrong' and if in doubt step back and think, just like you are doing now. Good luck!
Hes gay or bi thats all i can say
Dude, no one here can answer that question, only your friend can say whether he is gay or not. Just judging by what he does one time is not fair, guys get turned on by anything sexual. Especially teens. Remember this guy is your friend, first. Don't judge him, and as long as he is not trying to have sex with you, his final sexuality shouldn't be an issue anyway. Good luck.