How do I go about getting circumsized?!
Question: I am 16 years old, how do i go about telling my parents about what i want to do?
Answers: I am 16 years old, how do i go about telling my parents about what i want to do?
I, like you, wanted to get circumcised at your age. However, coming from Europe, my parents thought that circumcision was a silly Jewish thing and being overall anti-religious, they always ridiculed circumcision. So I never approached them on it but in retrospect wish I had.
A lot of parents choose not to circumcise their sons because they think it's a decision that the son should be allowed to make on their own. Obviously you have.
Approaching your parents about this subject is awkward but they might very well approve of circumcision and you should talk to them about it. I would simply ask whoever you feel most comfortable with: "Why did you not circumcise me at birth?" They'll probably tell you that they did it for you and that it's a decision that you have to make. I would reply that I wished they had and would like to get circumcised. If they ask you why I would simply tell the truth about how you feel (don't like the way it looks, everyone else is circumcised, etc.). At this point the subject is out in the open and I would just be persistent.
I hated growing up uncircumcised. It smelled bad, got dirty, and just looked silly. I felt very uncomfortable among other circumcised guys in the locker room. Part of me wanted to look like them and fit in but most of all I agreed with them that an uncircumcised penis looked gross. I ended up not going to gym class anymore and avoided all sports activities. Needless to say I ended getting fat and lost a lot of self respect. Soon after High School I got circumcised anyways and I was glad I did only wishing I had done it at your age.
A lot of people told me that I would lose a lot of sensitivity but I did not experience any of that. It's simply different. The only real difference is that it's cleaner and the way it looks. In the end it's about what makes you most comfortable and proud of who you are.
Tell them, research it, go to a urologist.
tell them it is alot cleaner and should have been done at birth and you want to be normal when you get married someday
tell them u want to hve sex and embrassed of your penis
dayum! bein a new born would of been so much eaiser of you could talk and tell them lol glad i dnt have that problem
Just see a doctor, and tell yuor parents you want it done.
Its your d*ck, and your choice- not theirs.
May I ask why though. I don't think anyone should do it just for pure cosmetic looks. It really should only be done if there is a medical reason for it.
You do realise you will loose a lot of sensitivity once its done, and sex will never feel as good again...
Theres a lot hyp about foreskins being unclean, but all you do is wash it properly, just like the rest of your body when you shower. Cicumcision is very old fashioned, and there is a growing movement to stop it being done to children, as it is child abuse. Unless it causes discomfort, or infection from poor hygene, there really is no reason to do it.
why would you want to do that? personally your lucky you get the best of both worlds so why destroy something so natural?
In Europe, uncircumsized is the norm. In the US it is considered abnormal. My understanding is that YOU will enjoy sex more being uncut. I don't know how active you are, but I'd try it the way you are, and if you are really unhappy about it, wait until you are 18 and go to a Urologist and get it cut. My father was 55 before being circumcized.
Other than that, talk to your pediatrician about the best way to go about getting cut.
I wish I had the choice.
i would just live with it. i mean if u thik about it it makes ur penis kidda bigger. but if u want it done just tell ur pranets im sure they will listen
Don't go there! You will regret. Some of the men posting here are circumcfetishes; they get thrills out of having had their skin cut off as tight as possible and often have it re-done several times!
Adult males lose 15 square inches (40 square centimetres) of skin in circumcision, over half the skin of your penis. You lose the gliding action as it slides on itself during masturbation and sex. You will suffer bruising, perhaps some bleeding, and the swelling from the disruption to the lymph system goes on for up to six months. Removing the foreskin turns the surface of the glans from an inner mucosal membrane to outside skin. Newly circumcised adults usually go through some weeks of intense discomfort as the glans is constantly exposed to rubbing on clothing, until it develops a thicker keratin layer and becomes less sensitive. You must abstain from ALL sexual activity for an average of six weeks. Some men like the final result but others complain of loss of sensation and miss being able to slide their foreskin over the glans. Circumcised guys often have little or no movable skin left and are forced to masturbate using lube or rubbing dry, without the loose skin. There is no going back if you don