Why is my pelvic bone making my husband sore after sex..??!
Question: when we have sex, he says that he feels my pelvic bone gripping his penis, and after having sex for a while it scrapes the sides of his penis causing soreness, is this normal..??
And NO I'm not skinny, I am a full figured woman, I heard this usually affects thin women...
so are my pelvic bones to close together ? is his penis too thick ? I have 4 children, so should I still have this problem ?
have anyone else experienced this..??
Answers: when we have sex, he says that he feels my pelvic bone gripping his penis, and after having sex for a while it scrapes the sides of his penis causing soreness, is this normal..??
And NO I'm not skinny, I am a full figured woman, I heard this usually affects thin women...
so are my pelvic bones to close together ? is his penis too thick ? I have 4 children, so should I still have this problem ?
have anyone else experienced this..??
That's odd if it just started - I would assume, if he's your husband and you have 4 kids, that this wouldn't have been something that started from day one!
I would see the OB/GYN and tell them what you said here...it's just concerning because it appears to be a new development. Your husband thinks it's your pelvic bone, but that doesn't mean that's what it is. Do you think you have increased the strength of the muscles in your vaginal wall (with Kegels or whatever - you'd have to be making a consious daily effort to get them that strong) and that's what the problem is?
yes I have.But the issue could be anything. Just switch positions often to find what's comfortable for the BOTH of you.
Try a different position. Are you doing it in the him on top yo bottom? If so try doggy or him on his side, try him on the bottom and you control the depth and speed. I'm sure with four kids you two can become inventive.
I've never had this happen to me but I think it's important to remember that our bodies come in every different shape and size imaginable. Maybe the "fit" of the two of you isn't perfect but don't let that stop you from having amazing sex. Why not try out as many positions as possible until you have a solid bunch to work from....you can even make a sexy weekend vacation out of it (if someone can look after the kids) Don't forget intercourse is not the be all and end all of sex try out some toys or focus on oral sex and manual stimulation. I hope this helps you out!
Uh, that is not your BONE that is called your MUSCLE. Your bones don't grip, your muscles do. And if he doesn't like his dick being grabbed during sex i suggest you tell him to start practicing using his hands in the shower so his penis will get use to some real action..
What is he a baby?
He might be riding too high in the saddle. I've never heard of a man complaining about this. You sound very experienced.....keep trying.