For women, please ponder?!


Question: ok, so, we all have insecurities right? but don't you think that it is generally more acceptable for a women to voice them within the relationship than men? i am very open with everything else except for my insecurities. these include trite jealousy, fear of rejection, fear of inadequacy (all of these are unfounded when i think long and hard about them and would probably exist within any relationship that i may be in at this time). obviously i have some work to do with my self esteem and this is why i don't involve her. your thoughts?


Answers: ok, so, we all have insecurities right? but don't you think that it is generally more acceptable for a women to voice them within the relationship than men? i am very open with everything else except for my insecurities. these include trite jealousy, fear of rejection, fear of inadequacy (all of these are unfounded when i think long and hard about them and would probably exist within any relationship that i may be in at this time). obviously i have some work to do with my self esteem and this is why i don't involve her. your thoughts?

Dude...

You sound NORMAL to me; try not to obsess too much on these items, and focus on what makes you unique -- talents, intelligence. I used to feel insecure, but it seemed to me that the only one who was making me feel that way was me!

Don't hold *yourself* back. Good luck.

That's not unusual at all. If she's the kind of girl my girlfriend is she WANTS to know if you're having a problem and can usual tell. They'll be more upset you're not involving them. They'll think you're upset about them when it's more or less about yourself.

Just be honest and more often than not she'll help you out of the "slump."

I feel the same way.

you feel like everyone else. except real men don't ask for pondering about these things on Yahoo. you really do have self esteem issues if you are here looking for help. have you tried a professional therapist? I think it would help you.

I would like to know what is going on in your head if I was your girlfriend, a long time girlfriend, not just anyone. Even the insecurities part too. Just don't over do it. Have a serious heart to heart conversation (she'll be listening, trust me) and she will feel like you let her in and feel so close to you. You can every now and again let her know how you feel in certain situations after you had the "conversation." Having a serious relationship is built on trust so that means you need to let her in too. I just wouldn't over do it by telling her everytime your feeling a bit insecure she might think you're a nut





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