When you masturbate, what do you suppose to think about, what exactly is your mi!
Question: do you think it's pathetic act
Answers: do you think it's pathetic act
It is not a pathetic act at all.
It can be a completely normal and healthy act and it is more common than you would think. People are usually not into talking about it because there is a lot of stigma attached to it.
We live in a very sex-negative society. As sexual beings, with strong desires, masturbation can be a healthy and safe way to deal with these urges.
It is important to know yourself what 'feels good' for you so that, when the time comes, you are able to communicate this to your partner(s). The best way to do this is to figure it out before hand and not be afraid to talk to your sexual partner(s) about it.
As far as 'what your mind is supposed to be on'.....
whatever turns you on, really. It could be a particular fantasy, a particular person(s)..... lots of things. Everyone is different.
Hope this helps
I think about how good it would be if I was with a female.
When I masturbate my mind is on women. I am thining about what I would love to do with their little love machines and how I could pleasure their sweet bodys and their little love boxes
I usually only do it to visual stimulus. On cam, video, pictures.
girls... no rules though, you can think about whatever you want.
ALways the job in hand. I like to think about being in a giant orgy
whatever excites you. and its not pathetic everyone does it..
Masturbating is good and normal for both men and women, boys and girls.
I personally think of nude women or girls with nice boobs and spread open legs and what I would love to do with them. That is usually all I need to get motivated.
you think about what ever turns you on. people differ in that department. if it feels good, do it.
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Don't know what girls think or why your question would be on men's health. Guys generally think about themselves and their body and turn themselves on. Sure some use other stimuli, but most just get off on their own feel.