My bf cant keep a b*ner?!
Question: we've tired having sex a few times, and hes hard at first, but as soon as we start going furthur he loses his erection, especially when he goes to put on the condom. we really love each other and i want this to happen, what can I do to help???
Answers: we've tired having sex a few times, and hes hard at first, but as soon as we start going furthur he loses his erection, especially when he goes to put on the condom. we really love each other and i want this to happen, what can I do to help???
You don't mention your boyfriend's overall health. If your boyfriend can achieve an erection but has difficulty maintaining it he may have a physical problem. A physical exam by a physician would be helpful. If he is uncomfortable describing his problem on the phone to a doc's office worker when he makes the appointment he can refer to it as a urinary problem until he sees the doc in person.
Other things can affect erection such as fatigue, alcohol or drug use, and anxiety to name a few. By now he is probably having some degree of performance anxiety as well. Make sure he knows you want to have a satisfying experience with him and are willing to help him.
Being thoroughly lubricated may allow him to penetrate you even if he is less than completely erect. After penetration he may become erect again. Finally, many drugstores sell a device known as a penis splint which helps support the penis during intercourse.
Many men of different ages have problems with erections for a variety of reasons. Some are chronic and some are transient. Good medical care and support from a loved one goes a long ways toward getting to the bottom of the problem and correcting it.
well if he is a virgin he is probably getting performance anxiety. when it goes down take control and start more with foreplay. make him feel comfortable. just don't stay down there and not do anything.
Maybe Mother Nature is trying to tell you something here. Listen closely. Maybe She is saying to choose someone else.
get laid, well. from someone else, so that your bf isn't so disappointing.
viagra
maybe he has erectile dysfunction
or maybe he's gay
Maybe your wicked ugly or he is gay.
It's probably anxiety about doing it the first time. You need to spend more time in foreplay, seeing each other naked, etc.
If you aren't into oral sex yet, when he's erect have him lay down and close his eyes, then you take over with your hand (use a little baby oil here, please). If he stays up and erupts for you, that may be all he needs to go further.
Have him return the favor for you. Mutual masturbation is something that you should do in your time together. Sex is not just in and out.