Please help me >>>>>>> erection problems!?!


Question: Hello there, I am a 24 year old male and sometimes I have problems with getting/maintaining an erection> I have met a girl that i like and twice I have not been able to get it up. This really shatters my confidence and depresses me. It is the only thing that gets me down in life. I went to see my doctor to tell him about it and he more or less said wise up you are a young man, you should be tryin to stick it in a hole in the wall... ?asshole

I dont know what to do... i dont want to go and meet this girl for a third time and make even more of a fool out of myself. She probobly think im the biggist loser and tell everyone.
Both times have been in a car,I wonder if doing it in a bed will make any difference?

Does anyone know what causes this/ what would help?

Please Advise...


Answers: Hello there, I am a 24 year old male and sometimes I have problems with getting/maintaining an erection> I have met a girl that i like and twice I have not been able to get it up. This really shatters my confidence and depresses me. It is the only thing that gets me down in life. I went to see my doctor to tell him about it and he more or less said wise up you are a young man, you should be tryin to stick it in a hole in the wall... ?asshole

I dont know what to do... i dont want to go and meet this girl for a third time and make even more of a fool out of myself. She probobly think im the biggist loser and tell everyone.
Both times have been in a car,I wonder if doing it in a bed will make any difference?

Does anyone know what causes this/ what would help?

Please Advise...

I guess there are alot of things that have to do with this situation. You are young so a medical condition is not usually the issue. I have had similar problems with girls and have concluded that the top reasons are: performance anxiety (is she your first?), not that attracted to her, not cozy and secure environment (the car for example) and lack of proper and stimulating foreplay and generally making out. I m actually seeking advice still for my issue which is similar, but what im sure about is that you cannot have permanent erection and will not enjoy it when being stressed and tense and depressed. So relax and take it easy! Hope i helped!

Dont feel like your the only person who has this problem many people have it its ok and im sure the girl your seeing doesnt care as much as you think and i doubt she will tell anyone some times you have to take what life throughs at you .

maybe u need to just lossen up alittle!!!

try watching porn be4 meeting her mayb that will help!

or try different places!

Go to the health food store and get the amino acid called L-arginine.This help to increase blood flow to the penis.By increasing the blood flow, it will help you maintain an erection.This is the active ingredient in alot of enhancement products.If that doesn't do the trick,try a herbal enhancement product.They are available at GNC.

okay I am a girl but let me offer my perspective. My boyfriend and I were having a very similar problem, everytime by the time he got the condom on he would have already gone limp. Finally we are starting to make some ground.. i hate to say it, but not using a condom has really helped us (i am on the pill and we have been dating over a year and are both clean of stds). Anyway something else that has helped us is me going down on him first, so that he goes ahead and c ums and gets it out of the way. The second time he is able to go much much longer. Well it is worth a try and the only thing that worked for us so far. *good luck*

This isn't a fun situation, I have been there and done that. I tried to regain my sex drive by doing everything. Changing my diet and even going to the gym and staying active more. Nothing would fix my weak erection that I couldn't get up. I needed viagra but didn't want the prescription or the harsh side effects like blurred vision and intense headaches. I then found an all natural supplement that will do the same as viagra but w/o the harsh side effects. It's called vigrx plus and it did everything it said. Increase my sex drive and even made the sex better along with the orgasm. I got more info and saved on it at hughs-reviews.com which was great.

performance anxiety is an erection killer and once you start to worry about it you are in even worse shape

when I have extreme stress I take a half of a cialis and then everything works fine, after doing this once or twice I find that I no longer need the pill because everything is working well again

at your age you should be able to break the cycle without any meds, but if you mind is stuck on it you could have a problem

ask you doctor for a sample kit or look online (the-med-store.com)





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