Why do men have to drill hard and furious; don't they know women like it slo!
Question: It's because the majority of men are either selfish lovers or ignorant of their partners needs.
Some think it's great to pound away for ages while the girl thinks 'Hurry up, get on with it'. Others have no idea how to please a woman and wouldn't dream of asking what makes her feel good.
Some men just want their orgasm as fast as possible with no consideration for the girl. Some are not even aware a woman can orgasm too!!
That's men for you and it's up to us girls to educate our partners. Sex is a two way thing although the majority of men don't seem to think so.
Answers: It's because the majority of men are either selfish lovers or ignorant of their partners needs.
Some think it's great to pound away for ages while the girl thinks 'Hurry up, get on with it'. Others have no idea how to please a woman and wouldn't dream of asking what makes her feel good.
Some men just want their orgasm as fast as possible with no consideration for the girl. Some are not even aware a woman can orgasm too!!
That's men for you and it's up to us girls to educate our partners. Sex is a two way thing although the majority of men don't seem to think so.
Theres always a place for hard and furious. Just like there is for slow and gentle. Variety is the key.
Guys go hard and furious because thats how they jack off. Takes a while to learn that women dont always respond to more and faster.
maybe because its one of a few ways he can get off, if its too soft its bad, too hard its bad, too short bad, too long bad. enjoy sex, that's what its supposed to be, pleasurable for both partners, if you don't like it fast, talk to him, he's the one who has to change. there's no problem you cannot resolve by talking.
It's been linked to circumcision. Circumcised men have lost the most sensitive parts of their penis and have to drill hard to feel enough to keep going. The O'Hara's found women who had sex with cut and intact partners reported sex with intact men was gentler and slower because they could feel more.
No they don't know. Many, if they do are too selfish to do so. But also some men are born to please.So look for one of these.
Be dominant and make them slow down. If it hurts their feelings , so be it. There are millions of drills out there. So don't be fixated on these fast and furious men, enjoy yourself with a good man with a slow hand!!!!! Ps I get as much out of pleasing than being pleased!!!
I Know it, you got to have both! I like to kinda switch around as i go,
As a matter of fact I got a complement from my last girlfriend for not being one of those drills
Not all women like it slow all the time, my wife and partener of 15 years love hard and even to the point rough sex quite often. there is a time and place for everything. don't get me wrong we still have very slow and sensual sex lots but now and again it is good to have a good hard session . Each to there own
cosmo go go gurl....... Because they come up short in the satisfactory department, so they figure the hard the deeper. It appears your not getting through to them as to what you like. Maybe if you took things in to hand, and demostrated what hard feels like with their gonads and penis they would get the picture better. Good Luck
The key to a strong relationship is to be diverse sometimes I want to make love to my wife sometimes we just want to f**k but rest assured she is always satisfied!
GoeffB got it right. It's because he's circumsized, he cant feel much or get off easy so he goes like a jackhammer.
Men who do that are really just masturbating and are oblivious to having a partner. They usually can be educated as to the difference, though.
It's a two way street. With no prior communication between the man and woman the miserable failing male keeps making the same mistake over and over. Young men 21 and younger usually unmarried, think of their personal sexual needs first. To them ten minutes is a long time. Woman on the other hand prefer to be pleasured first or with their partner. Mutual time of orgasm takes a lot of practice and communication. Young males haven't learned how to subdue an impending orgasm by stopping stroking for 30 seconds or chainging positions.
Slow stroking and slow soaking feels better and lasts longer.
My wife complains about slow.
If you're lying there in silence while someone guesses what you want, its your fault. If you speak up or show him and he refuses, you've got more call to complain.
I disagree with many of the other posters who said its b/c men only think of themselves, are selfish, don't care about the girl.
Men cannot read minds (although some think they can). If you don't tell us what you want, how can we know? Some girls like it rough, how do we know that you don't?
Also, sex is not all about the woman! The man needs to be pleased to....seems in general men need it to be fast and hard to get off, women need it slow and gentle.....too rough is unemotional to her, slow doesn't get him off....it takes communication and compromise for good sex. EVERYONE needs to listen to their partner!
i dunno. i kinda like being slammed around and degraded.
Grundle Goat is making me confused... : /
*blush* i thenk comunication weth ur partner an wanting them to be hapee well werk it out ? everee one lieks differnt things, an no ones a mind reader n_n
Thank God some men know better. While it is true that different women like sex different ways at different times, the key really is communication. Tell him what you like ... educate him to please you. If he doesn't care to learn, dump him. Personally, I like it slow & steady to medium speed, with a lot of deep penetration. Another tip ... if you are on top, you control the speed and the depth. Try it out.