Boyfriend? porn??!
Question: me and my man are very open... one day he told me he was watching porn and i jumped to the conclusion that i was not good enough... he told me that was not the matter... i asked him why he said i dont know... what does that mean?? besides i dont know
Answers: me and my man are very open... one day he told me he was watching porn and i jumped to the conclusion that i was not good enough... he told me that was not the matter... i asked him why he said i dont know... what does that mean?? besides i dont know
Well, you did have a good point. I haven't looked at (naked) porn in over 6 months and am gonna try to keep it that way. Trust me guys, it doesn't look good on your dating resume. I had to tell a girl that I did look at it because I felt like I needed to. She said she wasn't surprised and was hoping that she could meet someone who hadn't looked at it before (which would be REALLY hard to find).
But anyway, you should probably tell him to stop looking at it. I don't think it's right for a dude to be looking at porn when he has a gf...it just...isn't.
It's natural for guys to look at porn. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. Just forget about it. Boys will be boys.
he's guy it's just natural thing guys do that they don't know why but they just watch it for the fun of it don't feel that your not good enoufgh for him he just does t for the fun of it.
YOU SHOULD BE THANKING GOD THAT HE'S LOOKING AT PORN NOT AT THE REAL THING!
all guys look at porn, that doesn't mean he doesn't love you or think you are sexy. If you two don't have sex at all then there is a problem, but porno is a normal way for guys to understand themselves sexually, and if you two are indeed into being "open" I would suggest even watching it with him, if thats what he wants, and being open so he feels comfortable. Then you can feel more comfortable knowing you have accepted something he went out on a limb showing you, although you may have been offended.
Men are very visual it is a natural thing for them to look at porn it has nothing to do with their woman not being good enough.
There is nothing wrong with it, unless he's watching stuff involving unwilling participants or scat or animals or something. I'd say it's perfectly healthy, men need to expand their sexual thresholds. It doesn't mean you're not the most attractive one. It just means that he is acting out his other sexual desires naturally. You must agree that it's much better than sneaking out for hookers like my good had been doing behind his wife's back.
don't be silly. it's just not true. if you ate vanilla ice cream every single day and happened to just look at chocolate, it wouldn't mean that vanilla wasn't still your one and only ice cream flavor. sometimes the mind just needs to look at other things. i let my boyfriend watch porn and it never bothered me. i know that he's with me, and that fantasy is completely natural. if he chooses to indulge in solitude that's his choice. it's just another way of self expression. you shouldn't be worried at all. if you're as open as you say you are, you'd best not jump to conclusions like that or he won't be as open next time! maybe you should even ask if he would let you watch it with him next time. my boyfriend was very thrilled when i "serviced" him when i caught him watching porn. work with everything that's there, don't exclude it.
Just to echo most other people's comments about how this is totally natural.
Men are built to be sex machines, always desiring, ready to procreate and spread the species. Desire comes easily - but desire is not love.
Women are built to find a partner who will stick around to help her feed the babies. They need to know they are the only one. Different perspectives, indeed.
But leave him alone about his porn, just like he leaves you alone when you look at fashion magazines. You'll both be happier.
BOYS WATCH PORN! CHILL OUT! SHESHHH
stop being a drama queen.
i say 80 percent of guys watch porn once in a while
you are good enough its just you arent around when hes horny which is 24/7 for every guy