8 Second Ride... Whats wrong with me?!
Question: I am a 20 yr old male. I have been sexually active for 4 years. From 16-18 sexual performance was not an issue. But as of lately, with my girlfriend of 5 months, i dont seem to be able to last more than a couple minutes in bed with out having an orgasm. Is this just hormones? is this normal? Can i fix it? help please!
Answers: I am a 20 yr old male. I have been sexually active for 4 years. From 16-18 sexual performance was not an issue. But as of lately, with my girlfriend of 5 months, i dont seem to be able to last more than a couple minutes in bed with out having an orgasm. Is this just hormones? is this normal? Can i fix it? help please!
First off, it's nothing to be too concerned about. It sounds like your body is just changing, but your expectations haven't adjusted yet with it. It could be anything from physiology, to psychology affecting the duration of your sexual performance, and even a combination of them.
Here are some things you can try with your partner:
-Use a condom, additional/less lube, or even a desensitizing lube, and see if that makes a difference.
-Increase the length of foreplay (your partner ought not to mind either)
-When you feel yourself approaching orgasm, stop moving and wait a minute or more before starting again.
-Try a different position.
There are plenty more ideas to delay orgasm. But even if you can't manage to last longer, you can still satisfy your partner afterwards too. If she enjoys it, buy her a toy, or offer to stimulate her another way until she's satisfied, or you are ready for more again.
try not to go so hard right away. and making her *** before that might help too
play with her for a while, she will like it. thats like the best part. try to work yourself into it, instead of just doing it. b/c thats just really boring for her.dont take off all the clothes before, then that gives you time to warm up while unsnapping her bra and ripping off her panties.srry I know this must be emberassing with a girl here but hey, Im gonna know what she wants more than any guy will right? lol hope this helps you and her! from personal experience this lasted about 2 1/2 hours when he surprised me by starting out like this. I found it sexy and amazing!>sarah
Yes its perfectly normal.
Just relax and take it easy; don't think about it so much and you'll get back into the groove of things.
Grab your balls and squeze really hard then twist both balls in a circular motion until your stomach feels like your are going to throw up. After that, soak your balls in Tabasco sauce and light a match to your *** hairs.
That should probably do the trick.
Use the In and Pause thing.