Boys in my class keep asking me if im gay!!!!!!!!?!
Question: Well they obviously call me "Gay".
and just today a kid in homeroom was showing me straight porn on his phone and asking me if im turned on by it or not, how do you expect me to get turned on in school just by looking at a 10cm picture on a small screen?
Im not sure if im gay or not. (still deciding) i dont dress or look gay either. But my hair looks abit emo .....some girls in my year say they like it though. But why do the boys even care if im gay or not!?
Answers: Well they obviously call me "Gay".
and just today a kid in homeroom was showing me straight porn on his phone and asking me if im turned on by it or not, how do you expect me to get turned on in school just by looking at a 10cm picture on a small screen?
Im not sure if im gay or not. (still deciding) i dont dress or look gay either. But my hair looks abit emo .....some girls in my year say they like it though. But why do the boys even care if im gay or not!?
dont' worry bro... if the chicks dig it... it means you're either gay or way cool! so; you need to decide which one is you and capitalize on either side...and I'm sure the "straight" boys are hoping you're gay so that you don't pose any threat to their hopes of getting their peach fuzz stroked by the cute girls in school... also so that they can pick on you and look cool (also to attract the girls)... but you be cool and be you; either way... straight or gay (or both)... there is life after school and life has its own way for paybacks... those same straight bullies will end up with the typical failed marriages, alcoholism, depression, and viagra based boners in their mid-aged crisis years (40ish). So you live your life and be cool-to yourself and others; straight or gay ( or both ).
maybe they are jealous of your hot looks? most people suspect of being gay are ALWAYS good looking... maybe they want to make sure all the girls stay away, so they can have them? Or they like YOU??
they wanna make fun of you, if they knew your were gay. it would make them feel more masculine and macho and start teasing you
You just look like a gay.....but you're not a gay!!!*please*
maybe its the way you act.
body language says a lot.
cause normally when straight guys ask another guy if they are gay or not they are kind of making fun of them...
at least that is what it's like in my school...
sometimes guys think that guys that are emo are gay...
but i think only guys who are posers for being emo are really gay..
but most emo guys are bisexual...
people pick on anyone who is slightly different. it doesnt matter if your gay or not but it may make them feel better about themselves. you are definately not the only person in your class considering thier sexuality. If you are worried try and hang out with girls a bit more.. flirt etc.. but dont feel like you have to
stay strong.. when igh school is finished they will be losers and you will have spent all the time you werent tinking about girls, doing something worthwhile
Some guys are just dickheads try not to let it bother you its nothing to do with anyone else if your gay or not you will know in time but until then just try enjoy the journey
answer my qstion....ok now your problem
if your deciding wether your gay or not.....well.......
then the other guys probably have some sort of idea yor gay...
my advice to you is get rid of anyhting emo you do be straight and play some sport.
when girls like ur hair dozn mean tht they want u. girls like gay guys to be friends.
n im almost sure if he asks u if ur gay or not, means hes gay.
smne who wants to know bout ur sexual orientation is smone who wants to have sex with u.
You are very much older compare to them as your surounding. Try not to consent them to watch pornographic clippings turn their attention on the same way around they will enjoy, learn, and motivate to love morality. ~ may I say a reverse psychology.
i have this would solve your problem
(your personality is definitely not the main factor to your problem)
Gay is not an insult. It's just not straight. Being gay is like being a different skin color, you can't help it, and there is NOTHING wrong with it.
Who cares what they say. They are simply immature little brats who get their kicks by doing this sort of stuff to people. Just be yourself and don't worry about them because they aren't worth it.
May b they r jealous with ur hot looks or in other words they may b gay n wanted 2 hav relationship with u n thts y they ask u 2 knw whether ur gay or not....
ZOzo D..... It doesn't matter if your gay or straight. Some guys just like to make fun of others. Don't be bullied by their type! If your gay tell them you are, so what? Or ask them if the're propositioning you? You certainly have a right to be what you are, and happy just like all others in the world with out their consent or ok. Good Luck son!
dude, I get that at school too. Not from guys in my class cause they all know me pretty good and they dont care I'm gay or bi or whatever the f*ck I am. Its mostly from older guys I seen around but dont know. And I dont think I act feminine either but Im way skinny and quiet so maybe thats it. idk
Ever heard of gaydar? Even if someones not being obvoius, i can usually pick up on if theyre gay. I dont know how, it's just something I can feel. Maybe some of them feel that too.
From what str8 friends say, if you even have to think about if youre gay or bi, then you might be. The real real str8s dont have to think about it. Or maybe theyre just scared to admit
first of all, kids are always doing this crap to other kids in school. my experience was that the ones that secretly wanna try it or have fantasized about it are the first to accuse others! kinda like when someone farts and doesn't want anyone to know its them and start asking whats that smell? yeah, its usually a sign of their own curiosity. start telling them, sorry I'm not, but I can still be your friend and help you find a gay dude if that's what YOU are into! Throw it back at THEM!
mamyb is the way you act or something. same thing happened to me, as a matter afact all my life its been happening. they feel better and feel manlier making fun of people like that. if you hand out with gurls all the time, then that might be a reason.