I need to find a way to lower my sex drive, does anyone know some not off the wa!
Question: I'm 26 but it has been extremly high since I was young and it sometimes affects my relaionship. Also my blood pressure can run high at times so nothing that will affect that please.
Answers: I'm 26 but it has been extremly high since I was young and it sometimes affects my relaionship. Also my blood pressure can run high at times so nothing that will affect that please.
You are lucky to have that.
The problem is that science has focused attention on curing people with low libido, and not reducing the libido in people.
Let's be frank here: if your problem is your high drive for sex naturally, it is normal and not even advisable 4 u 2 tamper with it. It decreses with age, and by the time you are 45 and above you will have cause to thank God, cuz while others would be going into recession, u wld be sound as a machine.
But, if your problem is too much exposure to sex and maybe porn, then u have cause to worry. In this case u need to divert your focus and attention to meaningful and uplifting things in life. Think about money, care for others, winning the Nobel Laurette, Cars, Houses etc and imroving the lives of others, rather than the pic of that naked girl in that edition of playboy, etc
You're normal.
What you aren't, is mature (yet). You haven't been able to neatly fold the ID, put it calmly into the drawers (of your pants) and focus your energy elsewhere... and tell you the truth, having images on TV, mags, your PC at your fingertips, and internet porn so easily accessible... sexualized images are always, but always around... it is NOT easy. First thing, is to not want every chick you see.. or even think about buying drinks after work, talking up some smiling, high-heeled cutie and fantasizing or trying to.. (just, lock into real life).
But, you're 26. You have to know that making money, by now, requires ENERGY and a focus that has everything to do with Winning and that Sex Drive. You have to force yourself to want to better Work. Better Manage. Get into work Early. Out-perform. Show you care. Handle responsibility, everywhere. Take care of your parents, grandparents. Start a family. Shop for cars, mortgages, shovel the snow, do your taxes, protect your loved ones, better your community, do the recycling, look after the pets, clean your laundry, shop etc. ALL THE THINGS that are NOT nearly as gettin' freaky with her, or yourself.
It's ALL on you.
just find a distraction or something
I would not try to lower it if I were you; just accept the way you are. It will get lower as you get older anyway and someday you may wish it was high again.
William's got it right so listen up...
Don't worry about it...........just find yourself a woman with a high sex drive like yours and have fun......
masterbate when needed, find a hobby to occupy your time, go to the doctor to find out why blood pressure is high at times.
Well, kudos to you, that's not really something to be so worried on. I'm in a similar situation as you, I'm just 21 though, mine is high constantly too, and I attribute this to hormones raging because of my youth and exercising ( which skyrockets the amount of testosterone produced by your body to encourage muscle growth, and inadvertently, sex drive). You could always just keep a tight rein on those urges until you get some privacy at home and just let loose, that's one way of getting rid of your sex drive, at least for a short while before it picks back up again. You could also channel your energy into something productive, possibly something that will tire you out so you will be too exhausted to be in the mood for sex, but again, if it's exercise oriented, you're only going to wind up with an increase in it later. So, the best way to deal with it is to simply hold off until later and just masturbate, there's no rule that says masturbation is wrong in a relationship, it's nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm sure your partner would understand if you explained it to them, and you could make an activity of it with your partner, as perhaps them seeing you pleasing yourself may get them aroused, and you can take care of it together. You can have fun with a high sex drive either way you look at it, so just enjoy it and live for the moment.