Tickle-Fights???!
Question: my boyfriend wants me to come over tommorow for a tickle fight?
Is he gay or something? that is the strangest thing he has ever said
sorry about the placement, but I love you guys here. so help me out?
Answers: my boyfriend wants me to come over tommorow for a tickle fight?
Is he gay or something? that is the strangest thing he has ever said
sorry about the placement, but I love you guys here. so help me out?
What everybody seems to be forgetting here is that you have some say in this should you choose to accept his proposal.
If you are ticklish and you enjoy playful tickling (And if you think that it would be fun to tickle him and/or be tickled by him), you will probably love a good tickle fight with him.
If you do not like to be tickled, let him know that you are not comfortable with it andpolitely decline his invitation.
Chances are that A) He really wants to see what it is like tickling you playfully and B) He really wants to see what it is like tickled by you. You still have a voice and you can set some rules and boundries.
For Example, you might choose to adopt the following rules:
1) No Deep or Painful tickling.
2) No tickling the breasts or crotch areas
3) The tickling must stop when a person says "Stop!" (Or uses a safe word).
Feel free to come up with any rules which make you feel safe and comfortable.
There are MANY people out there who love to tickle (and/or be tickled) who are very decent and normal people. They are not gay and they are not wierd.
Did you know that there is also a health benefit to playful, consensual tickling? It's true. When you are laughing and having fun, your brain floods your body with healthful endorphins which reduce stress and promote healing. There is great truth to that saying "Laughter is the best medicine".
If you are enjoying the tickle fight, you will probably find that you feel less stress and somewhat refreshed after the tickle fight.
This only works when you are havnig fun. If the tickling is non-consensual, the ticklee tends to become angry an defensive which inhibit the endorphins from doing their job.
I hope that this helps and I wish you and your boyfriend all the best!
depends on where he tickles you honey. but bring the nail polish and the cosmogirl just in case he turns out to be gay.
lol i ont think hes gay at all. i think he just wants to be more physical with you. Ive had quite a few tickle fights with guys and they always seem to get turned on by all the touching and closeness. most of my tickle fights ended in sex... im not sure how old you are but if he wants to have a tickle fight its pretty much because he wants to be closer to you ;)
For some people this is a type of foreplay. If nothing else it will give him a chance to "accidentally" touch your more intimate areas.
hahaha, what the heck?! lol, i don't think he's gay because he's going out with you,but that's just weird. was he just like"do you want to come over tomorrow at 5 for a tickle fight?" lol
Laughter is the best medicine...and sometimes lusty..but he may have a bit of fetish.
Get ready for the feather..ouch.
Yeah, it does seem a bit wierd because he makes tickle fights sound like the whole theme of you coming over. I'm sure he had something else planned, but was a little displaced for words at the time he asked you.
lol i think he's just kidding and you guys will end up making out or doing something more. have fun ^-^ !
sounds cool to me.....go do it ...lol
Tickle fight??? What kinda fruit basket are you dating???
Haha, jk. He definitely has a different sense of...um...entertainment. But if it makes him happy, whatever. But you'd better see if you're ticklish on your boobs, because that's probably where he's going to be tickling you the most XD
lol i think its just an excuse for u to go to his place
Just an excuse to get his hands where they wouldn't normally be allowed. If you are already having sex, then he just wants to change it up a bit. If you are not, he wants to get his hands wet, so to speak.
sounds like good, wholesome, clean, safe fun...but just in case he tries anything funny take a can of mase and a knife.