Married but whacking off is better than wife... cheat on wife?!
Question: it depends how ugly your wife is...
Answers: it depends how ugly your wife is...
I'm not sure what your asking? Whacking off is not cheating on your wife. No you should not cheat.
time to talk...discuss your needs.
n0- don't cheat on your wife, you need to go see a sex counselor or something because cheating does not make you in the right and it hurts both people. do you really want to lose your wife for some hoochie who is probably having sex with 15 other guys? i don't think so. sit her down and talk to her about it, and get a karma sutra book, they have some crazy positions that you guys could try and get her more into the mood, more foreplay the better. but please don't cheat on her and don't make her feel bad because no one deserves to feel that way. good luck :-)
Your question can not be answered in a few words. But please realize: Life is a process of self-service; it is nothing wrong to be self-serving as long as what you get is not at the expense of other's spiritual, physical suffering, pain, or loss through manipulating other's ignorance, anxiety, and fear with the tactics of power and the disguise of deception under hidden agenda. If this rule of act is violated, mistrust and distrust will surely emerge to spoil future relationship. Based on this simple fact of life, you should be able to figure it out yourself unless you are the one who only likes or wants to hear what you like and want to hear but no to hear what you need to hear. Good luck.
Well, it basically means that you are not satisfied on how your wife does it on bed.
Maybe, that it's more pleasuring for you to whack it-off than having sex with her.
Just remember that you are not the only person in the world that do it. And not satisfied with the performance of their partner.
If you want to ask more, you can have chat with me.
You need to break the habit of whacking off. Instead, try to spice things up with your wife and save your load for her. I had the same problem, but havn't whacked off in 2 months and now our sex life is better than ever. Play games with her; I bought her school girl outfits and sex toys. Watch porn with her...you'd be surprised but women do like watching porn. Don't let them fool you. Also, concentrait on her a little more and make her feel special and sexy. It makes her want you even more and all day long. She'll come home from work horny.
We went months without sex at one time and now we are having sex about 4 times a day. (fyi: We are not newly weds....we've been married for about 7 years now).
Trust me, you have to want to break the habit in order for this to work. Women are programed differently than us. Men are light switches and women are dimmer switches. You gotta slowly turn them on.
'Ask her to help she might like it. It could open up your sex life with her,she probably knows you're not the only one that does it. She might be doing it too as substitution.
It is only cheating, when you ejaculate and unable to perform or lose interests for your wife.
what did you get married for if you like to beat it more than bang your wife
that'd be kinda mean to leave your wife just because she isn't that satisfying sexually. yes, sex is pretty amazing and great, but relationships and marriage shouldn't only be about sex and being pleasured. if you don't love your wife any longer then that's a different story, then you should get divorced, but you shouldn't cheat on her just because she isn't satisfying you enough sexually.
there are many ways to work on being satisfied in bed. try some new positions and such or go at it more during the week. if you're going to have sex don't wack off beforehand because that's just less effective for once you have sex with her.
best of luck! i hope everything really works out!