Why not give up?!


Question: almost bankrupt
depressed
can't get a decent job even after grad school
fat
too old to be poor
tired
hypertensive
random aches and pains doctors have no explanation for
could ad a couple dozen more and worse things but who cares
apartment bulding i live in now owned by slumlord -installed crappy electric heat so we have to pay for that -for some reason removing laundry machines from basement -
at my physical tuesday the dr will remind me how fat I am and how high my bld press is - already on 3 meds just for that plus several others so I'll get more stressed and that will make everything worse.
two jobs -yet all the bills won't get paid - eatout? No. Go out to bars? No. Lots of nice clothes? No. actually whole life is bland minimal boring.
work
work some more
sleep
take pills
worry
work work some more etc...


Answers: almost bankrupt
depressed
can't get a decent job even after grad school
fat
too old to be poor
tired
hypertensive
random aches and pains doctors have no explanation for
could ad a couple dozen more and worse things but who cares
apartment bulding i live in now owned by slumlord -installed crappy electric heat so we have to pay for that -for some reason removing laundry machines from basement -
at my physical tuesday the dr will remind me how fat I am and how high my bld press is - already on 3 meds just for that plus several others so I'll get more stressed and that will make everything worse.
two jobs -yet all the bills won't get paid - eatout? No. Go out to bars? No. Lots of nice clothes? No. actually whole life is bland minimal boring.
work
work some more
sleep
take pills
worry
work work some more etc...

excuse me, but have you been reading my diary or something? here is why i keep going--- the alternative truly sucks. best wishes to you my friend.

Your life sucks kinda.

How totally depressing. If I was in your shoes I would say bye bye.........

I'm sorry. Just look on the bright side. You won't have a house payment! :)

because YOU are better than that.YOU are not a quitter.

why would you give up, when you give up you have no chance at living a Happy life but if you keep trying and stick with it then you do have a chance of living a happy life so just keep trying

I can't believe how some people are answering this. If you take your life, you'll be sent to hell, and then you'll wish you never did. because hell is a HORRIBLE place. even worse then you're living now. God gave you life to live it, somewhere along the way...help will arrive.

If you quit, game over. Winners never quit, quitters never win.

Lots of us have been where you are. Your depression is making everything worse for you, most likely. Lousy job? start cranking out resume`s and make the most of your experience. When you see the doctor, talk about your down mood, and feeling of hopelessness. There may be yet another medicine needed. Some BP meds cause depression in a fairly high percentage of patients- ask if yours does. Maybe just a change in meds will help.
Go find some young atorney and ask him to take on your slumlord "pro bono" for everyone in the apartment building.
They have to do a little pro bono work in most states. Don't expect things to change unless you do something. You can.

dont give up. man dont you have a mom a dad a uncle some one that you can move in with and get your feet on the ground. they all had help one time in their life.. if not go to a social place in your town... they should help you with food. and a job

Think of it this way. give up=fail life.

Because if you quit, there is no chance that your life will get any better. You gotta try, you will get through this.
If you want to talk to someone, call this number.
1-800-442-HOPE (4673)

you shouldnt give up bc god has a plan for you
you dont get to choose where you start but you can make good decisions to get to the place you want to go.
just keep praying

Yeah, well I'm in Iraq............

Ha! I can't get a decent job even after grad school! I hang in there because someday, I will have a better job than nearly everyone I know, and even though I have to spend all idiotic day sending out stupid resumes and going on stupid interviews, eventually I'll get something good.

Your defeatist attitude is probably impairing your ability to look good to potential employers. Happiness is not always something you are blessed with. It can be a choice. Look for anything to be happy about. You could have roaches!!! You at least can afford to go to the doctor! You apparently are pretty smart. Pick something and love it! Find something--anything--to be passionate about. You will only be able to entertain yourself if you find something to love. (It can be something free. What do you think is just great?)

This is a start. When your doctor starts to bug you, ask him for advice on dropping some weight. Ask him to refer you to a counselor (there are free clinics out the ears if you know where to look) so you can work on your depression. If you're seeing one, and it's not helping, see a different one. Ask if there is a medication you can drop or if you can try something new. IF IT DOESN'T WORK, STOP DOING IT!

(Incidentally, my blood pressure absolutely dropped when I started taking just 20mg of Paxil, and it whacked my anxiety, too. Also, if you make time to walk every day, that will help, and it may help your weight, too. It's hard for a few days, but eventually your body starts craving it. Eat some fruit, too. It makes your body work better, and eventually you'll start craving that instead of cheetos, too.)

Prove you're not a quitter and a wuss by digging yourself out of this hole. It's hard, but if you spent as much time trying to improve your situation as you do feeling bad about it, you'd be halfway out of the hole already.

dont give up u should go getta another jobb
u noee lifee is likee when u have to live it up and drink it downn so there is suppose to be no time to give up becausee when you give uo ur showingg ppl how weak u r! and how much u their helpp i think that u have to do all the stuff by urself and never give up u noee mah lifee isnt that easy eitherrrr
i live alonee and i dotn visit my parentsss becasee they rlierssss and i dotn like going to thier housee buh see i dotn give up becausee i dotn wanan show them that there no life without themmm u noee that when ur alonee and u kan help urselff think about itt and u will understnaddd mee!!!! =]
hope it helpss yeah





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