I'm 19 and still having weekly Wet Dreams / Nocturnal Emissions. HELP? MAKE !
Question: I remember my first couple wet dreams back during puberty.
It actually stopped for a long period of time, and would be very random, like once a year I would get another one. Ever since about my senior year in high school, I've been getting them like crazy. Now it is every week. Is there anything I can do to make these stop? I'm now living in a dorm room with a roommate. I always wake up right away during my first emission, and therefore I don't make much more of a mess than what it makes in my boxers. It is very annoying, and no one knows I do it. Help me with any tips etc. One thing I've been doing (usually after I get one) is (this is embarrassing) tying up a kleenix around my penis to make sure it catches it if ever to happen again, but of course that doesn't prevent the first one. I don't want to sleep every night with one of those tied around my dick. Please, be serious, don't say answers like castrate yourself, or i'll have you reported and banned.
Answers: I remember my first couple wet dreams back during puberty.
It actually stopped for a long period of time, and would be very random, like once a year I would get another one. Ever since about my senior year in high school, I've been getting them like crazy. Now it is every week. Is there anything I can do to make these stop? I'm now living in a dorm room with a roommate. I always wake up right away during my first emission, and therefore I don't make much more of a mess than what it makes in my boxers. It is very annoying, and no one knows I do it. Help me with any tips etc. One thing I've been doing (usually after I get one) is (this is embarrassing) tying up a kleenix around my penis to make sure it catches it if ever to happen again, but of course that doesn't prevent the first one. I don't want to sleep every night with one of those tied around my dick. Please, be serious, don't say answers like castrate yourself, or i'll have you reported and banned.
start at the root of the problem. Nocturnal emission implies that your subconscious is trying to escape or tell you something. Obviously you are somehow sexually frustrated. This could mean a number of things. You are either not getting enough, you are not being satisfied, or simply you want something different.
My first recommendation would be to (as embarrassing as it may be) masturbate before you sleep. This could also help with the overall problem. This is because as you masturbate you could try different fetishes or whathave you while you do it..thus mentally experimenting to see if you like something.
If you are simply not having sex, them find a partner...but remember to always be safe. Because, yes, the sex feels better w/o a condom, but i can assume that clammydia feels a hell of a lot worse than intercourse with protection.
If you are a nymphomaniac, try to find the root of this problem. Most cases of nymphomaic come from childhood...such as being molested or raped. Ironicall in life, when tragedy strikes, the first and most common effect is that you obsess it. Sadly, if it is a case of nymphomia, the only thing you can do is slowly try to cope with the source, and masturbate constantly...that will be the only way to stop it in that circumstance.
Now, the easiest to fix with your problem is that your sex life may be a lil stale. Try spicing things up. Not just "furry handcuffs" kind of stuff either. Like i said, try masturbating to different thoughts and scenerios..see what you iike and dont like. And NEVER feel bad about a fetish, you have no control over what you like, and if it makes you happy, there's nothing wrong with it. And dont be naive either. Try thinking about "role playing", "gay", "toy-play", "3-somes", urination, fireplay, voyerism, etc. A lot of times, nocturnal emissions come from lack of stimulation in conscious thought. You see, the subconscious has no filters, it moves freely to what it desires..during a "wet dream" you may not remember your dream because you body is in shock form the connect to dream-world to real-world. And at your age, experimenting is very common and healthy, mainly for this reason.
Our final possibility is the simply "puppy-love" symptom. You could ver simply be extremely attracted to somebody around you (roomate, classmate, teacher, friend, etc.). It doesnt matter who. But you could just be very attracted to them, and the thought of them consumes you. In which case, you will have to comfront the person.
good luck to you...and have fun with it. you're not sick or deceased...you just have to work on your sexual tensions.
get a girlfriend
can you not masturbate before going to bed to stop them?
as embarrassing as it may be, you might just check with your doctor to see if its normal, you may have something wrong with you if its that often
You didn't mention your sexual activity, but I'd suggest *ahem* relieving yourself before bedtime.
Go see a doctor and he should provide u with alot of advice as to what you should do in order to avoid any further dilemnas but wet dreams at your age can be quite a good sign. It could mean that you have a good diet and that your body is at its prime stage to reproduce and have kids, so if you have kids now then your children are probably going to end up being healthy and develop maturely too.
It all depends on your brain chemistry I believe. I've never had a "wet dream" and wish I did. I don't think there is anything wrong with you, but you may want to consult with a general physician or a urologist to be safe.
well i dont think you should be embarrassed at all .
it may seem embarassing but im sure your not the only person in the world who has this problem.
so you should check with a doc.
and straighten things out.
make sure your all good.
and then get a nice lady friend.
:)
yep.
Nocturnal emissions are perfectly normal. Even at any age. It's the body's natural way of excreting over-produced amounts of semen. Not only that, nocturnal emissions also indicate a lack of sexual intercourse, and/or a lack of masturbation. Once you start masturbation, then the nocturnal emissions will stop.
You may well always have wet dreams. It's natural for some of us, no matter how much other sexual activity we have. I'm 63 and I still have wet dreams, despite having regular sexual intercourse with my wife 2-3 times a week. Neither sexual intercourse nor masturbation will stop them, no matter how often you get release in those ways. It's no problem, completely normal and quite enjoyable in itself. Stop worrying about it and get on with your life.
I suppose you could try masturbating more? I havent had too many wet dreams myself, and i masturbate several times a week, so perhaps thats why...hope that helps
i had the same problem and still have them ocasionally! but one night my mom woke me up and said i was makeing noises and as embarassing as it was she knew what was going on so a week later i whent to a psych and told them what my problem was and there first solution was that i should masturbate often such as once a day or when ever i get the urge becuase up till then i never masturbated before but as i did it often like they said the dreams went away!!!
Wet Dreams are normal dude, why should your roommate get annoyed and you get em brassed. You both may be of same age , both had attended puberty. Whats shame in that?
If You don't masturbate then wet dreams are going to come, this does not mean that I'm encouraging you for masturbation. Its like if you filling a glass which is full of water till brim, then its quite obvious, that it will flow down.
Same thing happen with our semen, it keeps on producing and the excess comes out.
Dream about bananas, that way you ain't gonna get all frisky underneath the sheets!
Apparently masturbation reduces the occurrence of night emissions. This would at least explain why I had so few.
First of all You can report me after this but you can't have me BANNED!!! who do you think you are?..YahooMafia?....you ask stupid questions like this in a free country on the internet at night...be prepaired for some Brutal answers......LOOK AT A PICTURE OF YOUR GRANDMA BEFORE YOU GO TO BED AT NIGHT...IF THIS DOESN'T STOP YOUR BED WETTING PROBLEM TALK TO HER ON THE PHONE BEFORE YOU GO TO BED TOO.
Obviously you need to masturbate much much more dear.
Try doing it twice per day, once in the morning and one in the evening. I am sure that your weekly wet dreams will stop.
wow at 19
most boys learn that if you masturbate you stop wet dreams
find a time when you can jack off every few days and your wet dreams will stop
yo dude,
i jerk off 2-3 times a day.................
..................never hav to worry about wet dreams ;-)
marcus