Is it possible for a man to rape another man?!


Question: My friend knows someone who she saw at a party and there was this man hitting on the guy she knew. The guy, however told him off and when he turned around to talk to his friends. The man looked like he put something in the other guys drink without him even knowing it. After he finished his drink, he didn't look well and passed out and the other guy took him back to the car and drove off. And, another time when my friend saw the guy, he was talking with a couple of his buddies saying how he raped the other man without him even knowing it and that he used a date rape drug or something. She didn't do anything, because first off she didn't know him too well. But, now were both kind of concerned about the guy that was raped and he didn't even know it. How can we tell him or should we go to the police?


Answers: My friend knows someone who she saw at a party and there was this man hitting on the guy she knew. The guy, however told him off and when he turned around to talk to his friends. The man looked like he put something in the other guys drink without him even knowing it. After he finished his drink, he didn't look well and passed out and the other guy took him back to the car and drove off. And, another time when my friend saw the guy, he was talking with a couple of his buddies saying how he raped the other man without him even knowing it and that he used a date rape drug or something. She didn't do anything, because first off she didn't know him too well. But, now were both kind of concerned about the guy that was raped and he didn't even know it. How can we tell him or should we go to the police?

Yes, and unfortunately it happens quite often, especially in prisons. Yes, please do tell him and have him go to the hospital and the police. He could have contracted a disease, even HIV. Just be there for him, but don't press him to talk about it. He will probably be very reluctant to admit it, and unfortunately, the longer you wait, the harder it is to prosecute, especially with drug-related cases. Rohypnol and other date-rape drugs don't stay in your body long enough to test.

He would know it if he was.

yes
thru his butt
his anus aka rectum aka booty aka butt aka
u get the picture

idk

yes it is possible and happens way to often it is just hardly ever report it due to the simple fact men are supposed to be able to take care of themselves but in truth men are just as vulnerable than women

If it hasn't been too long ago there may still be DNA evidence to prove. I don't know how long it stays in a male vs a female but I'm pretty sure it would be the same. If there are witnesses and people the other guy "confessed" this to then you could have a pretty good case anyway. Rape cases can be pretty hard to deal with but it should absolutely be reported. Just because he's a man and not a woman doesn't make rape less heinous.

tell the police. Just because a sexual predator is young doesn't make him any less dangerous. if you don't want to tell the police tell you parents or tell a teacher at school. ignoring it is the wrong thing to do.

A man can be raped the same as a woman, I would mention it to him by saying that this guy is spreading rumors abut raping him when he was drugged. Then it up to that guy to find out what happen he may need to get tested for HIV or something.

Of course it's possible and I'm sure he knows what happened to him although I don't know if he knows who did it. He's probably too ashamed to do anything about it. Tell him what you heard and who that guy was, he should go to the police. He should have done it right away though.

yes its called anal sex it happend to my friend and u should tell him and ask him if u should go to the police

yeah, you should ask him if he had felt like something was weird, he might have and not told anyone because he's afraid or shamed and embarssed.... it's just as serious any way you look at it, and this guys needs to go and get checked for std's.... be supportive and don't drop it on him like a ton of bricks- try to be very kind, like if you were explaining it to a teen or something.

listen to me, he would know if he was raped if he was straight. why are you asking this now?? seriously are you a robot? if you felt this way you should've done something earlier. what can the cops do now? all that edidence is gone now. the guy should've showered and changed his clothes by then. and if the guy doesn't even remember, how do you know it was him? you gotta use your brain. there isn't enough evidence and because you decided to wait and ask on YA, you might have helped leave a criminal on the streets

I saw this same episode of Law & Order SVU. They found a bite mark on his butt that matched the accused person.





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