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Question: me and my girlfriend have agreed to have sex sometime in her house ( safe sex of course ) but my foreskin doesnt fully go back when erect and if i stretch it right back it hurts,what can i do to make it not hurt? i only have till next week thursday
Answers: me and my girlfriend have agreed to have sex sometime in her house ( safe sex of course ) but my foreskin doesnt fully go back when erect and if i stretch it right back it hurts,what can i do to make it not hurt? i only have till next week thursday
If your foreskin doesn't retract with an erection now, then there's nothing you can do by next week - that's just too short a timespan. If you use lube, then it might help a lot but you don't want your foreskin to get stuck behind the glans (penis head) if it accidentally retracts too far. If you're wearing a condom then you should be fine, as the condom should keep your foreskin from moving back and forth a lot.
In any case, this is something you should resolve. While many might suggest circumcision, that's not necessary. There are easier and painless ways to "fix" this condition (called phimosis).
The first thing you should try are stretching exercises. See link 1 for good and detailed instructions on what to do. It's best to do them right after a shower when the skin's most flexible. If that doesn't work after about a month, then ask a doctor about certain prescription creams that're supposed to help loosen the foreskin. In one study, these creams are the most cost-effective treatment a doctor can provide (link 2). The creams can also take up to a month or two to full work, so be patient.
But if you combine the stretching exercises with the creams, then things tend to go quicker. In most cases of phimosis these two treatments are all that're necessary, you just need to be a little patient.
See the remaining links for some more useful info, and the last is a blog by a guy who went through a similar situation. Good luck with whatever you try!
to be honest it sounds like you need to be circumcised if your foreskin is too tight, this can cause painful problems if left, consult your doctor
Have you ever been circumcised? Might be a consideration, but not in time before Thursday. lol
It doesn't need to be fully retracted for you to enjoy sex. If you can't by the "deadline" then don't worry. Try soaking in a warm bath and *gently* try to stretch the skin. Other than that, try visiting a urologist. Do NOT listen to these idiots talking about circumcision. You lose 10,000 - 20,000 nerves that have a lot to do with sexual feeling. Not only that, you risk losing sensitivity by leaving the head open to injury and chaffing.
ummm that doesnt sound normal.
maybe u just need to make sure its well lubed up
or else go talk to a dr
My brother had the same problem. He eventually went to the doctor and was given a surgical circumcision under general anaesthetic. He recovered really quickly and has no trouble now.
Don't stretch the skin back in case it tears - this is also what can happen during sex, and that's what happened to my brother. So it's easier not to get the tear in the first place.
I agree with the guy above re circumcision of babies. But in adolescents and adults it can resolve dysfunction. You don't lose important nerves because the 'orgasmic' nerves are in the glans not the foreskin.
Perhaps that guy can explain how tearing during sex is better than being comfortable?
You do not need to retract the foreskin all the way back. Just be sure your partner is well lubricated and insert your penis just as is. As you thrust your foreskin will retract as much as it can which is enough. If you are using condoms besure there is ample space at the top when you put it on and everything will work fine.
I am not circumsized as well. When I was younger my penis bled when I masturbated too hard. I do not have the problem of tight foreskin, however. When you are wearing a condom your skin shouldn't be pulled anyways.
There are other treatments besides circumcision for this. There are some things you can do at home to try to stretch the foreskin, but you need to be careful to avoid injury. There are also other minor surgical treatments such as making a slit in the foreskin. Check out the link below for more info. Paragraph seven describes some of the treatment options. I don't think any of these will help you in a week.
If you're having safe sex, you can keep the foreskin down when you put on the condom. Additionally, you can use a sexual lubricant like KY to avoid friction.
Other than that, stretching when I showered helped me a lot. I haven't had a problem since. You can read more about stretching here:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...
First, you really need to get your foreskin to retract all the way, just to be able to clean it properly. Just keep working at it. You might need to see your doctor for advice if you can't get it to retract.
Second, if you use a condom and/or plenty of lubricant, it shouldn't matter whether your foreskin retracts or not.
Third, planned intercourse, especially your first, often is very disappointing and lacks the magic of being spontaneous. In any case, no intercourse is guaranteed "safe" as far as making babies is concerned. I'd suggest that you stick to mutual masturbation for now.
wear a condom and make it kind of tight and you should be ok if not otherwise you might want to think about circumsion yes they can do it now so yeah how do u masterbate