Why don't I have a gf?!
Question: I am 34 and I have never had a gf. Is it because I have a big nose, a skinny face, balding and a long neck?
Answers: I am 34 and I have never had a gf. Is it because I have a big nose, a skinny face, balding and a long neck?
looks have nothing to do with you not having a gf/ you just haven't found a decent woman yet. A real decent woman will not judge you for not being Collin Farell, She will look at the kind of guy you are. Maybe you just haven't found the right girl. You're not the only guy that age that hasn't. And don't be embarrassed about it. its better to find the right girl once than try and get your heart broken twice and more. Just wait it out, or join a dating site? I'm sure theres a single lady friend you might know who's single. ask her out and see how it goes. Build confidence and don't think your looks has everything to do with it, smile and be yourself. Being unsure is the worst can you do. Give it a try and lets see where it takes you
I'm gonna guess your avatar. Wait, did you mean on Y! or real life? In real life your too old for me. =/ But adding more details would help.
no its because you lack confidence buddy.
oh my.... maybe you need to go out more!
like the fella above said, you need some confidence!, then the ladys will take more notice of you
Have you ever pursued a girl?
maybe your standards are too high
ill guess your not as hilarious looking as my good rockin buddy Nat. he is such a pinhead.
but he has so much confidence, or at least he acts like it. He wears suits and shirts in loud colours when he goes out, dances really overtly and will go after his 'prey' no matter how good looking she is. and usually he gets her.
one of his more dubious techniques was somehow spreading a rumour that he has an enourmous penis. This has yet to be confirmed or disproved.
do you expect them to ask you out? you gotta be confident and ask them out yourself
Umm....maybe cuz you are a dork?!? women want a man to mate with not a visual freak. Buzz your head get a nose job and maybe you will get a woman.
Low self esteem. Its all fear man and you probably could if you really tried. Do you try and talk to girls or do you give up and just assume you're a loser b/c this will just create a vicious cycle. As liberated and empowered as women are they still expect you to talk to them. Most women expect you to make the first move and its all about confidence. Just talk to them like one of your friends. Be yourself, dont put them up on a pedestal just because they're a woman, they're people just like us. If your yourself you come off as being confident and you dont feel like you need to put on some act or performance because this always back-fires at some point. Keep trying, dont give up. There are women out there who will turn you down and are actually kinda self righteous about it, but dont let that get you down. They're not worth your time and thats having self respect.. Thats my 2 cents.