Why do wives not understand ?!
Question: Why do wives not understand how important sex is to their husbands? Bad sex will end in Divorce. so why don't you try to learn good sex before marriage??? Divorce rate is increasing all over the world. so learn and learn .
Answers: Why do wives not understand how important sex is to their husbands? Bad sex will end in Divorce. so why don't you try to learn good sex before marriage??? Divorce rate is increasing all over the world. so learn and learn .
Good sex depends on both parties. To get good sex you have to give good sex. If you are satisfying her she'll keep coming back for more. Married couples should be able to express their sexual desires to one another and experiment together. You must keep the lines of communication open.
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I'm a man and I disagree with you. Most men are extremely selfish and piglike when it comes to their wives and sex, with little regard for their feelings.
Few men have any clue regarding what a woman really needs and wants (this doesn't mean "sexually" and it means real, down-to-earth sensible women).
This should help to provide some insight:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...
I suspect that there are more husbands who need to learn good sex than wives. At least, that's what the gals tell me when they're cheating on guys who can't bring it home right.
Because they rather not learn how to please a DIFFERENT man before their marriage?
Wives don't see why husbands don't understand talking is important to them.
O.k. so why don't men learn how to romantic with their wife instead of just being sex maniacs...if you worked at turning a woman on you'd probably get laid more :p
maybe you just ask your wife 2 give more head. I understand
Good point, but that's not going to go over well on this site! I agree though, wives should stop their busy lives to better accomodate their husbands.
ps: I was kidding!
Do you mean bad sex or infrequent sex? There is a difference. And I totally disagree. Sex doesn't make a marriage. Love does.
why don't men teach their wives? Men don't want women who have "slept around". And why don't MEN learn what is important to a woman?!? The sex would be a WHOLE LOT BETTER, I guarantee!!!
don't have a girlfriend, do ya?
Who could think about sex with a dope like you? I can see why she doesn't want to be with you.
Excuse me, but PREMARITAL SEX is the CAUSE of most divorce in this country, not bad sex in your marriage. Women aren't the complete cause of the problem either. Infidelity and such are the cause. You need to get educated. Sex is only half of it. What about the needs of your woman? Huh? She needs more intimacy!
omg do you think that divorce is increasing because of sex
hell no its increasing because peopole marry other people so fast they dont get to know each other b4 they get married then they end up seeing the bad side of a person and file for divorce!
Dude that's just not the reason for the high divorce rate. Sex is what you make it. If women were better men would want even more. It's never ending.
Something tells me there are more reasons for divorce than bad sex. I suspect men also occasionally perform badly in bed too.
"Learn good sex before marriage"?
Is there a school for that? Do they take financial aid?
Any is great. Doesn't even have to be good. just be consistent.
If sex is the thing that will make or break your marriage then I would tell your wife to move on. You're obviously too shallow to be worth keeping.
Maybe your wife doesn't give "good sex" because she doesn't get any from you.
Marriage is not all about sex. If a marriage ends, it is most likely due to other problems in the relationship. If a guy is all about sex and doesn't care about other things, then yes his relationship is bound to fail.
sex starts in the mind. where there is no mental satisfaction, there is no physical satisfaction.
Women are more emotionally involved with themselves and the feelings they hope men also experience. Since men lack these emotional responses triggered by rigorous physical activity, it is considered to be of little or no value at all to most men. In that same aspect, women sense the seemingly overwhelming lack of enthusiastic relishment and cherishing properties men sadly fail to adopt in 99% of their relationships.
As an extremely masculine bisexual male, I will tell you this.
It is not women who need to learn. It is both the male and female involved in that relationship who need to learn about each other, themselves, and the reason ,"why," they are married if sex is the only factor in that marital pact.
Sexual congress should be initiated and consented to by both parties involved. Not because of apathy, pitty, or disappointing let downs.
Sex isent the only thing in the Word some men dont like sex some men are really bad at it so haha and why do you men pay so much attention to the size of youre penis and youre the ones who cheat on us so dont you dare Critisize the way we have sex
Financial problems are far more likely to cause divorce than sex problems. In fact, I believe sex is 4 or 5 on the list behind issues such as child raising philosophy, spending habits, sloppiness, infidelity
this happened to me, turned down so many times, I lost the want to have sex with her, and she wondered why, ended in divorce.
It takes 2 people to have good sex, and good communication leads to good sex. Instead of blaming your wife, why don't you learn how to communicate and turn her on. There are many skills the 2 of you can learn together, but it sounds more like you just want a physical release instead of a mutually satisfying interaction. I work with all guys and hear a lot of guys complain about their wives, of course they never think the problem might have something to do with their technique or their attitude. Patience, communication and mutual learning can lead to a very satisfying sex life for both people, if you just want a quick release use your hand.
Sex is important to wives too, but its not just sex, its being romanced, wanted, making love. So why dont you try to enjoy your wife more, and love her as well as sex.
And as for your question 'why dont you try to learn good sex before marriage??' wowoowowow...would you have liked your wife to have been with many guys before marriage jus to learn good sex, dont you understand that good sex is an automatic reflex action to foreplay...so try it, go on ...make her feel sexy and wanted, let her know how much she turns you on, and then maybe you will have a nice surprise. :)
dude, marriage is not all about sex