How to reduce the amount of masturbation to as less as possible?!


Question: i'm 15 and masturbate once in 2-3 days. i don't believe those people that say masturbate is healthy and can even prevent cancer. so please give me advice on how to stop masturbating so often. thank you


Answers: i'm 15 and masturbate once in 2-3 days. i don't believe those people that say masturbate is healthy and can even prevent cancer. so please give me advice on how to stop masturbating so often. thank you

I personally don't think you have much of a problem as that's really not very often for most teenage boys... however if you're feeling that you can't control yourself as much as you would like and want to develop more self-discipline there are some things you could try.

You need to strengthen your will power, which is like a muscle - the more you use it the stronger it gets. Try denying yourself small pleasures that your body is craving eg. if your body is often craving something sweet, then deny it sugary food sometimes; if you have a tendency to talk a lot, then avoid idle speaking when you have nothing necessary to say. You'll have to find examples in your own life of ways to discipline your compulsions.

If you start with small things that are relatively easy to overcome then you will gain confidence and can grow to tackle stronger urges. Don't get too over-concerned with the masturbation thing though - the sex-drive is one of the strongest (and most necessary for our species) compulsions. As long as you control it and not the other way around you don't have a problem. Self-discipline is life-long work and should developed in a balanced way.

thats not even a lot.
i masturbate more than you do.

every 2 to 3 days in a teenager is admirable restraint

You just keep on at it and ENJOY

Um that would be normal for a teen. When it becomes several times a day then you might want to seek professional help!

There are absolutely no health consequences to masturbation, and you don't even do it a lot! I say don't worry about it! However, if you really don't want to do it, just think about something completely un-arousing... Like Rosie O'donnell! :D

Depends on what you believe, preventing cancer is silly....its not nessarlily healthy but its not unhealthy by any means. The simplest thing to do is have sex, but if you are religious than you can take a COLD shower or bath every time you have the urge. If you don't have time for that than put your hand in a glass of ice water.

Masturbation isn't a bad thing. Anyone that tells you differently is misinformed or catholic/christian. I'm sure there are other religions that frown upon the act, but christians are the biggest zealots out there. They are the ones that promote circumcision with the loudest voice. An operation that causes more harm to the penis than any good they *claim*.

I don't believe masturbation is healthy either. I've managed to stop masturbation altogether, although I still have temptations to sometimes, I do resist these.

The thing about abstinance is self control. Stop looking at pictures which might arouse you. These include advertisements which contain images of women.. and things like that. No porn either, because watching pornography is the treating of human beings as sex objects, and it's not right watching such a sacred act being degraded so badly.

The less you masturbate, the more you'll feel aroused. So do understand that it isn't easy not masturbating, but you need to be determined and strong to stop it.

What helped me stop was a very close friend of mine whom I turned to when I felt the urge to do it. Perhaps you could find a friend who'd support you through this as well?

All the best with stopping :) I think this world needs more people who are willing to control their sexual drives. Stopping masturbation will not only help you gain control over this, but also make sex, when you eventually have it, more meaningful.

edit: christians do not promote circumcision. They look at masturbation as something that is not right because they believe sex is a sacred act with e purposes; pleasure, and procreation. Masturbation is like taking the 'procreational' bit about sex away and only concentrates on the 'pleasure' bit. Makes it quite meaningless and all. Catholics, btw, ARE christians.

I agree with kaininknows. Those methods do work.

it does prevent cancer mate 20% only if u do it 5 times a week

yo dude,

thats not much.........

.....better to just do it get on with life than torturin yaself by not doin it!!!!!

plus think of all that unneccessary sheets washin ya hav to do - that cant be cool 4 the environment, eh?
marcus

You're not masturbating nearly as often as most boys your age, who tend to do it several times a day. In any case, whether you believe it or not, it is healthy and normal. It's just a natural reaction to your body's hormones trying to get you to have sex and make babies, for which masturbating is just a safe, convenient alternative. I don't know about it preventing cancer, but that's irrelevant. It's enough that it's harmless and feels good.

Masterbation is a personal choice to do. Choose not to pleasure yourself. Simple.

As to it being "bad" of course it is not. Masterbation is simply solo sex. You are not doing anything physiologically that you don't do when you have sexual intercourse-- just no partner. Ejaculating when you are a healthy, sexually maturing male is good for your hormonal system and frankly is a good way to relax and enjoy your own body. But if you CHOOSE to not go solo, that is a choice you can easily make.





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