How can i make my husband a good foreplayer before sex.actually my vagina gets d!
Question: i m 29.two years married.during sex my vagina does not get sufficiently wet so it hurts me and my husband.but i think my husband doesnt understand that he is not satisfying me to get exicted before sex.i dont feel it good to explain this by my self.how do i make him understand that i need good foreplay before sex.
Answers: i m 29.two years married.during sex my vagina does not get sufficiently wet so it hurts me and my husband.but i think my husband doesnt understand that he is not satisfying me to get exicted before sex.i dont feel it good to explain this by my self.how do i make him understand that i need good foreplay before sex.
Tell him what happens to you physiologically. Remember, do it when he is not aroused. Just a casual conversation at home. I'm sure he wants to satisfy you as much as you want to for him. Don't feel uncomfortable talking about this with him. He may find it more arousing. Tell him this. That, you need to be naturally lubricated in order to enjoy sex as much as he does. Tell him when you are fully aroused your vagina muscles loosen and it also starts the lubrication process that makes sex very enjoyable and not painful. Also, tell him that the clitoris sole purpose is for sexual pleasure. Ask him to give you oral, and lick it. He may like it. Ask him if he'll give this a try for you. I'm sure he'll be very understanding to your needs. After all he's your husband, he must love and cherish you, so, he probably wants to know this. Talk with him. I hope I helped. :) Good luck!
Remember, Communication is key in a marriage. Statistically, Good sex life accounts for 10% of marriage satisfaction. And a dissatisfied sex life accounts for 90% of marriage dissatisfaction. This could spread into a whole lot of different issues.
Have you ever thought of oral sex?
you know this happens to me, and trust me when a guy is hot its really hard for them to understan or even try to understand, but the best solution for me was using lubricant, it will help with the pain and it will also get you in the mood try it!
Definately get some lube, and use some toys to get your self in the mood. Your hubby will love watching you play with yourself!!!
TRY this, get some baby oil and rub some on him like a regular rub. Suggest he put some on his hands and start foreplay. (or do it yourself) If he asks why just be honest you have been dryer then usual lately. Also there are products on market but I think they have same ingredient as baby oil. It wont hurt you and Im pretty sure it will improve the event.
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How about KY jelly? Tuck some in the nightstand. Another secret I have been doing for years...when it comes to oral. Buy flavored lubricant and a kit for yeast infections. Toss the medicine (or save it for a rainey day) and just use the applicant, fill it with the flavor and inject it way up in there, use a warm washcloth to wipe the excess from your labia. After 10 years, my hubby still believes I naturally taste like strawberries! lol
Sometimes dryness has nothing to do with foreplay...every body produces different amounts of secretions and women secrete as well as men. This is just natures way of "getting ready". After childbirth, getting older, changing hormones, etc. your body changes. Getting excited is more of a mental thing than physical. If it hurts physically because of dryness, then suggest alternate methods of lube, not just more foreplay (unless you mean oral which would help).
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you should let me lick it first before you f u ck
try oral sex or masturbation before hand....
Tell him to lick it before he sticks it.