Is it possible to have ED at my early age?!
Question: I am 19 years old, and have attempted to have sex for the first time twice. However, both times have been unsuccessful. I would attain an erection, but shortly after, my erection would die. The First time, i thought it was because i had been up for over 24 hours and just needed rest. Then the second time rolled around and the same thing happened. That's when i began to speculate that i had Erectile Dysfunction. But is it possible to have ED at 19? What should i do?
Answers: I am 19 years old, and have attempted to have sex for the first time twice. However, both times have been unsuccessful. I would attain an erection, but shortly after, my erection would die. The First time, i thought it was because i had been up for over 24 hours and just needed rest. Then the second time rolled around and the same thing happened. That's when i began to speculate that i had Erectile Dysfunction. But is it possible to have ED at 19? What should i do?
You don't have ED, because it did function. What you have is performance anxiety, pretty natural if you are nervous- and that's pretty standard the first few times. The first time, it probably was a combination of fatigue and the nerves, second time it was a fear of a repeat performance. And dare I suggest that perhaps, in this rare case- that particular part of your anatomy is actually listening to your brain? Could it be that the female involved isn't the one you really want to do this with? If you are making this attempt purely to rid yourself of your virginity, and there isn't any sort of real affection- then that may be a good part of the problem. It's not a command performance situation here, and that part of your anatomy doesn't do tricks on command. I think when the time and the girl are right, you will find that everything functions as designed. It does now, it just doesn't want to jump through the hoops.
You are probably nervous. Having sex with someone you've never slept with before puts you in a very vulnerable position. If your erections are normal when you're alone (like when you wake up in the morning) you're fine physically. It's called performance anxiety. It should not be a problem if you're in a close, trusting relationship.
No. ED only refers to the person who can't attain hard-on. You are just nervous. and maybe there's an awkward feeling, that it's your first time. just overcome these feelings and you will do a great job.
If you have more related questions, feel free to send an IM. I would gladly entertain you.
You do have performance anxiety, but when your with someone for the first time you want to please them and you just get nervous. don't worry about it or have her work it over with more foreplay.
If you get erections normally and easily at other times, then you do not have ED. What you have is a case of performance anxiety. That does not require any special treatment; but spending more time naked with a gf would not hurt anything especially if you let her do as she pleases with you.
Any attempt to force performance or any worry about performance only serves to make it worse. That's why the "I am naked, do with me as you please" thing works; it exposes your body, releases all your inhibitions, creates maximum embarassment and allows you to overcome all the fears of all of it as she proceeds to explore and experiment with you.
I'm guessing that you've been masturbating at least once a day for the past few years. The human body is not meant to perfom like that. We used to be a nomadic people and we would only engage in sexual intercourse at most once a week. Think about it. Would you be thinking about sex when your tribe only has a day's left of food and you have no idea how long you will have to travel to find more? Or a few days later when your mother and family are by your side starving to death?
Why do you think so many men today suffer from problems like ED and premature ejaculation? When you ejaculate you expell vital nutrients and hormones that your body NEEDS to work properly. That is why you have no muscle tone and why you have back pain. If you break your masturbation / sex addiction now then your body might be able to heal.
This is probably a performance anxiety along with nervousness. I have had this problem of a limp erection and couldn't penetrate. You should try a natural supplement to get your head into and get over that hill. I'm on vigrx plus right now which is a great natural viagra. Just take it for a month and ditch it. your too young. Read up about them at hughs-reviews.com where at the time I saved money on them. Single herbs won't do the trick either because they are less weak and with other herbs surrounding it, they work way better