Guys is it wrong to want to watch my boyfriend have sex with another girl?!
Question: How do I ask him to do it?
Answers: How do I ask him to do it?
The same thoughts turn me own however I think reality would not be as big of a turn on.
Jealousy could set in but use the thought to get yourself turned on.
If you act on your fantasy lay down guidelines before.
Try not to hook up with someone you are involved with like a friend. I suggest a one night stand someone you will not see again. Just tell him...I bet he will be hot too.
sounds like u do not respect yourself much
speaking from a female prospective who is open minded...no its not wrong if you feel comfortable with this then go for it! If he says something like if i can't have multi partners then we can't see each other then yes its wrong!
YOU GO GIRL!
wow, im sure he would love that and love that he has a gf like that,
Perhaps he should watch you have sex with another girl.
It depends on why type of person he is, if he loves you then he will be hurt and could leave or he could jump at the chance and say yes, be careful this could strain and even destroy your relationship
great relationship is on the rise I see
If you both feel comfortable with it then there's nothing wrong with it, you shouldn't care what other people think about it if it's something that you want to do.
Though there's no reason why he should get all the fun, see what he would say if the situation was reversed.
say u want a 3some
find a friend who's up for it..
My husband and i often have certain people over for sex. I have 2 regulars (and a third that i invite over rarely). and he watches. it drives him crazy and he is horny for weeks afterwards.
I also watch him with other women that we know. In that case i spank him and play with his butt while he's going at her. <g>
we both love it.
There are some things you really need to talk about first. you have to set some hard and fast rules.
1. Only do this kind of thing together. it's a couples thing and Never ever is this a license to cheat. PERIOD!!!
Never let the other person talk you into a session with the spouse not there. I tell my "guys" that if they even bring up that subject they will never get any more of me again!!
If he or you are not comfortable with the other person, then either of you can call it off.
Talk about what sex activities you will each allow the other to have. For instance, I don't kiss my other men, Only my husband. also, he HAS to go down on my after the other guys is "done". He has to lick it all up. (I love doing that to him, <g>)
Now go to the computer, get on the internet, find a site that has this as a subject and then call your hubby over and say:
"wow, hon, look at what these people are doing!! isn't that wild !!....
could be fun, you know???"
good luck.
LD
no but can he watch you have sex with man other then him but if u were my girl i would love you even more for this.
Both you and her get naked and wait in bed for him. Make the offer and see if he takes it. Be prepared for the consequences the next day...they don't alway turn out like you expected. You won't know your true feelings until after it happens. Most wish that thought it through a little more. Happy 3-some!
Yes it is terrible. You should be wanting to join in
this is exactly whats wrong with society today, no wonder divorce rates are so high and the average marriage only lasts 3 years.
that just means you are very openminded nothing wrong with that!`
im a girl , but it is not wrong at all, dont ask him until its time ,are you going to just watch or join, i love to watch and i love to join, first you got to get a girl thats ok with it , have her over , some how get your boyfriend in the mood , shouldnt be to hard to do ,, if shes on board with it , you can start by rubbing him thru his pants while shes sitting close by ,, after hes hard you take the other girls hand and place it on his erection and move her hand on it for awhile then you let go as you kissy your boyfrind help her to undo his pants you pull it out and stroke it a little then have her do the same ,, now you pull her head down toward it as you kiss your boyfriend while she gives him a little oral ,, the rest should go smoothly , get the camea and enjoy the show,, if your not going to join you still must kiss him accasionaly so he knows your ok wih it
it is so wrong.
by this u r runing ur image.
and the resepct of every singl women. like if sex is just an act to . like eating and running.
Sex shout be more than this in a relationship. it is love making.
My wife wanted to watch me with another girl, but I wasn't up for it. She said that I couldn't differentiate between making love and "fun sex". She was probably right about that.
I think that sex is precious and shouldn't be spread about willy nilly.
Some of your answerers seem to be ok with it and if there are strict rules which you can both agree with, why not?
Not for me though. I think I'm probably not secure enough.
I guess that my advice is be certain that's what you want, and be prepared for the inevitable consequences, both good and bad.
As for how to approach the subject. I guess that you have to be bold and just come out with it. It's a subject so 'upfront' that tiptoeing around wouldn't seem right.
Hope it works out for you.
how about he watches me and you. i am a director.
Simply....point to a girl...say, "let's do her." He will be happy to oblige once he picks his jaw up off the ground.
just say honey I love you and would you do this chick and let me watch?!
i think you should ask him to. but if he asked would you be willing to have sex w/a girl for his pleasure or have a threesome if he wanted it. if you are willing to those things for him(which would be every straight guys fantasy)then yea you should ask him.
**** if u were my gf i would do anything for u if u let me do that