Are women generally like this only?!
Question: i am 27 years old married guy & have a baby too. my wife does not look interested in having sexual intercourse. whenever we do it, its always me who initiates it. she is like neutral..whether we do it or not, it hardly matters to her. sometimes it seems like she does sex only to fulfill her "marital duty". at the same time, she enjoys lots of kissing, hugging & cuddling. she is extremely uncomforatble with oral sex also. i hav not experienced oral sex in the true sense till date. there is no tension of any kind in our relations. we also share good communication with each other. i use condoms so there is no fear of pregnancy on her mind. i just dont understand what is the problem or is there any problem at all? she behaves like this since our wedding night. for me, its so difficult to go to sleep after hours of foreplay but no intercourse. i am a well-endowed man. do all women behave in this way? can you diagnose or suggest something?
Answers: i am 27 years old married guy & have a baby too. my wife does not look interested in having sexual intercourse. whenever we do it, its always me who initiates it. she is like neutral..whether we do it or not, it hardly matters to her. sometimes it seems like she does sex only to fulfill her "marital duty". at the same time, she enjoys lots of kissing, hugging & cuddling. she is extremely uncomforatble with oral sex also. i hav not experienced oral sex in the true sense till date. there is no tension of any kind in our relations. we also share good communication with each other. i use condoms so there is no fear of pregnancy on her mind. i just dont understand what is the problem or is there any problem at all? she behaves like this since our wedding night. for me, its so difficult to go to sleep after hours of foreplay but no intercourse. i am a well-endowed man. do all women behave in this way? can you diagnose or suggest something?
no, not all women are this way. but women are so many different ways, who can say whats normal. I would just talk to her about it. ask her, lovingly. maybe there is a spefic reason that could be worked out or maybe ther are physical or emotional things going on. or maybe she is just shy and doesn't feel confortable initiating sex, i would just talk to her. ask her. be real nice about it, but let her know you want her to want you, what can you do, see what she says. i think any diagnosis or sugestion from an outside party might be less helpful than whatever she says if you talk to her directly. there could be so many different possibe reasons.
no we don't. maybe she is not having an orgasm, so it is not pleasurable. I don't mean because of you either! It is been found that woman who are very stressed out have trouble enjoying sex. I think until you sit down and talk to her, you won't know the real answer. Get off the computer and talk to you her.
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This is why I tell my girlfriend were not getting married
have a one-one talk with her about this matter
doing sex daily does not mater but doing it in a different style matters
not all women are this some are crazy even they outwit men
first increase the mood then proceed slowly don't be in hurry to finish enjoy doing it
maybe she's tired from taking care of the baby. give it some time. or maybe she has a sexual dysfunction.
i don't know many girls that like oral sex.
inter personal relationship is only problem
she will understand you if you could understand her better.
asian people thinks sex is taboo... if you are asian then better educate her and yourself..
talk relax enjoy best of luck.
im one of the few on the opposite end. im 26, hes 30. he works so long and hard he doesnt want it anymore but im like ready to rape someone. I assure you its not 'all' women.
Maybe you both should see a counsellor maybe she has some sex related issues, or see a sexologist.
Talk to her about it!!
sounds like you have it pretty good except for the no oral thing... maybe you guys should use some other form of contraception like a diaphram(sp?)