Hi all adult guys please help my bf?!
Question: i have got a new bf he is 21 and virgin he has a serious problem he has not mastrubated using hands as he hasnt pulled back his foreskin till now and he had practice of mastrubating just by lieng on bed and pushing his dick against the bed now that he is trying to pull back his foreskin its normal but even if his pennis is erect the foreskin is as usual it doesnt scroll back is it normal for a 21 years male sujjest him wat he should do and he also has heard about the thin layer which has 2 get cut automatically while mastrubating for 1st time , but as he hasnt mastrubated there is no cut of the skin inside and i was just wondering is the nerve connecting his pennis with foreskin has to be cut or wat.....please help him he is worried to consult a doctor as he is afraid and he is also worried about the money 2 be spent so he has shared it with me and he starts crying he is a innocent guy who wasnt been taught 2 clean his pennis by pulling back foreskin kindly help
Answers: i have got a new bf he is 21 and virgin he has a serious problem he has not mastrubated using hands as he hasnt pulled back his foreskin till now and he had practice of mastrubating just by lieng on bed and pushing his dick against the bed now that he is trying to pull back his foreskin its normal but even if his pennis is erect the foreskin is as usual it doesnt scroll back is it normal for a 21 years male sujjest him wat he should do and he also has heard about the thin layer which has 2 get cut automatically while mastrubating for 1st time , but as he hasnt mastrubated there is no cut of the skin inside and i was just wondering is the nerve connecting his pennis with foreskin has to be cut or wat.....please help him he is worried to consult a doctor as he is afraid and he is also worried about the money 2 be spent so he has shared it with me and he starts crying he is a innocent guy who wasnt been taught 2 clean his pennis by pulling back foreskin kindly help
Don't worry too much about pulling the foreskin when erect, it's more important (and easier) to do it when soft. Anyways, that's when he'll take 5 seconds to wash under the skin.
I went through this and fixed it by stretching. No surgeries. Read the following or have him read it. I'm always here if you have any questions.
This is common among young teens and guys who have not tried pulling their foreskin back much, that's because the foreskin is attached to the head when you're young to prevent the head from getting dirty. Usually it separates before puberty, but in your case you have to give it a little help. Now that you probably masturbate and pull it back to wash under it (only takes about less than 10 seconds) it'll start sliding back more and more. If you have a tight foreskin, you can actually stretch it like I did when you shower. It only took a few weeks and it hasn't given me a single problem ever since. =)
Work on getting it less tight. Here's what you do. When you shower and and you're soaping up your body, pull the foreskin back the most you can without forcing it, and then wash the head with the other hand. If you do this each time you shower for a few weeks, you'll see results. It'll slide back a little more every few days.
Now, as for the sensitivity, as studies have proven, the foreskin keeps the head sensitive. That's not a bad thing, since that creates pleasure. However, you don't want it too sensitive. Yours is just too sensitive because it hasn't been used much before. So you just have to rub it gently at first for some weeks (start off with just water and then every few days try to rub a little more) and you'll see the difference. Then you'll be able to rub the head however you want. =) So in a way, those two things are tied.
So yeah, work on it and in a few weeks you'll like it. =) And of course, feel free to e-mail me from my profile if you have any questions!
You do NOT need circumcision. And you have every right to remain uncircumcised, as after all, circumcision does carry risks and most 'benefits' are unfounded or contradicted. Common risks of circumcision are more difficulty with masturbation (it was made popular in the USA to stop masturbation, after all), and lower sensitivity. There's a reason why the USA is the last developed nation doing it to newborns, and our rates are falling; it's as low as 14% in some states by now. Research it more in the link below:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...
In the end, if the stretching fails after a few weeks, you can ask a doctor for a cream. It's 0.05% betamethasone, which is successful in over 90% of cases. You can even take the study to him. It's a really inexpensive cream; Wal-Mart sells it for $4 with prescription and online you can buy it for about $10 at drugstore.com, for example.
http://www.brazjurol.com.br/july_august_...
But focus on stretching it first. That should give you results after some time.
afraid youll have to cut it with a knife
tell him to go get cut (circumsized) itll cut off the foreskin
No lol its kinda funny. But he NEVER pulled back the skin?! holy crap its gona smell SO bad when he does. You ONLY JUST PULL THE SKIN BACK. thats all, nothing is gonna break, the skin is just over lapping because hes not circumsized but no layer is going to break he does not have a hymen. lol just tel him to pull back the skin and wash that crap real good.
He has a condition called phimosis, which is where the foreskin is too tight to retract during an erection.
The cure is usually a medical procedure called circumcision, which is performed as outpatient surgery with anaesthesia.
Haha, what Mark said was funny as hell...if yahoo didn't have this F'ed up points system...id give you a thumbs up. As for this question (which was way to long) just get him to a hospital when he's got the money...its not a life or death situation. Till then, he'll just have to keep humping the bed I guess.
No, he does NOT need circumcision or surgery of any sort. He just needs to practice pulling back his foreskin more frequently. I recommend he perform stretching exercises with his foreskin every time he takes a shower as the hot water will reduce the discomfort of stretching. After time, his foreskin will glide back and forth like it is intended. Nobody taught me to pull back my foreskin either but fortunately, I figured it out myself around age 13.
I also recommend he visit the following forum about dealing with tight foreskin and phimosis. He can find a lot of useful advice there.
take him to d doctor- he needs to be circumsized
tell him to do it gently
I am not sure about humping the bed. That certainy isn't the normal cure for phimosis. His foreskin could also be stuck to his glans with smegma. He should bathe it in the shower every day carefully truing to pull the foreskin back a little further each time... and he should also try stretching hsi foreskin for 5 minutes every day. Eventually, like in a month or two, he should be "cured" and he doesn't even have to hump the bed any more.
I underwent Circumcision at the age of 28..........It is a very normal procedure and is done in the hospital setting and you won't even know that it was done.........except for a few stitches around the top edge of the penis and I also experienced a lengthening of my penis after this was performed............I like the feeling of it this way it is soooo much more pleasureable..........
is he retarted?