From gay or bi - to totally straight?!
Question: Can someone go from being gay or bi to being totally str8? My friend says he did, but I think he's not being honest with himself. And now he doesn't want to even know me or say hello, and thats the worst part.
Answers: Can someone go from being gay or bi to being totally str8? My friend says he did, but I think he's not being honest with himself. And now he doesn't want to even know me or say hello, and thats the worst part.
Awwwwwwww. It hurts because you shared so much. It does not sound like he is being honest with hinself but there nothing really that you can do right now. Distance apart is the best thing right now. In the mean time keep busy. Maybe find another boy you like. DO NOT CHASE AFTER HIM! You will regret it later. He will use you for his toy. Good luck. Be happy.
its rare but it has happened before.
No, it's not possible.
But there's no wrong with being a gay, either. =]
EDIT:
But there are some people who are gay, yet married to a woman and had children. In that case, it's possible...
I dont think I have ever heard of that happenning. but maybe?
Think I seen him on Jerry Springer.
despite what people might think i think you can! I know someone who did. Sometimes people are confused and it takes them a while to find their way!!!
na we have a goat . aflack good nite
Much of the scientific community thinks that being gay is a mental illness, I'm sure it's definitely possible that he "got better". (I'm not saying I agree with the scientific community btw)
Also, supposedly straight people turn gay all the time, I'm sure it can go in reverse too.
I think when some one bi its because they cant choose the gender that they want to truly be with, so yes I do believe that they can decide that they would raher be with a a certain gender over another....but I dont understand what would cause a fight about that...I am sorry and best of luck to you
The worst part is you werent being a very good friend. You made a judgement on this person and now your friend doesnt want anything to do with you. Yes it is possible. Have you ever heard of the famous singer David Bowie???? He was gay/bi and is now straight. I think you need to apologise.
No, I don't think so..........
It sounds like to me that he is trying to be someone that he isn't and it will come back to haunt him after a while.......he will lose all of his friends now and then come back crying later on and no one will be able to trust him then.........
Sounds to me like He is Gay.........
from my opinion, i think he's not being honest. i know that once you're gay, you'll live with it your whole life. even though you have a wife/girlfriend, you'll still have an affection for guys.
stranger things have happened so let it go he will either speak or he won't not your choice
what does it matter?
I dunno... I was definitely bi 10 years ago, but the older I get the straighter I seem to get. I don't know why. However, I have no problem with anyone else being gay and wouldn't stop being friends with anyone for that reason. (Unless they were giving me a hard time about being straight.)
Whether he is really straight or not, I can't tell you for sure, but it sounds like he's not much a friend anymore. I'm sorry that happened to you.
did not know u could do that
We don't need to define people's sexuality. Let your friend live his life, whomever he may be attracted to.
maybe it could because people can change.
I don't think it's likely. It maybe that some people who are bi decide they will just pick one sex to have relationships with but sexual attraction is what it is.
You are likely right that he is not being honest with himself. That's unfortunate. He probably has serious problems with self-worth and thinks that pretending he is not bi will make it better. It won't, it will just make him more and more messed up. It may even have him doing unsafe things like looking for anon sex with other men.
I'm sorry this situation happened to you. The only thing you can really do is move on. Some things are just messed up.
of course especially if ur a teen if u do gay/bi things everything can change wen u do something with a girl things change and ur body if trying to figure out what it wants =) dont sweat it
Going from being bisexual to straight seems more likely. But in any case, it would seem more like whatever their sexual preference was before, was a "phase". A lot of people, even full grown adults, are confused about their sexuality. They may go back and forth between liking one sex and liking another, in order to try and maintain a balance and a sense of normalcy. Usually, when people "change" sexualities, it's an indication that what they identified as BEFORE wasn't genuine.
For example: my brother said for a long time that he was "bi". He even puts bisexual down for his orientation on some websites now. There's such a stigma attached to being gay. But he has a boyfriend. And I know for a fact that he does NOT like women at all. There's nothing wrong with that.
But it's people like SOME on this post that make them think they have to pretend they're something they're not. It's sad and it honestly disgusts me.
It seems that he must have be more attracted to women and when he finally got one he doesnt need you to supply that sexual fix that you gave him. Trust me he isn't comming back and I know you don't want to hear that but trying to make him will just upset him even more. This is where you need to just call it what it was.
How old are you again?
One cannot go from gay to str8, nor from bi to str8, EXCEPT if they choose to deny their sexuality. I'm really sorry to hear about this but I'm sure that if he's really gay/bi, he will come back to you as soon as he breaks up with his gf.
Try and be strong, because some people consume the best of us and then move on...
No it's not possible unless they weren't gay/bi in the first place. Sexuality is something you're born with.
con front him and ask him "what is the problem (not what is your problem) ?.
"Is it that i am bi and you went from gay - bi - str8te and you hate me because your now strate and i am bi and that you have a GF?''
some people today just don't get others and what they are on about when it comes to this kinda thing. hope this helps
HOW COULD HE DO SUCH A THING!!! omg u shouldnt hate him but he shouldnt be doing that to u.. he has no right to just throw u to the side like that.. especailly after u gave him the best 6yrs of his life.. and maybe he just wanted to expermint or something!! he might just be just trying to see something.. i dont think he has changed completely!!
yes its possible, because being gay or bi is a choice, people aren't born gay. God says in the bible that being gay is wrong, so why the hell would he create gay people? It's so wrong....
this is a sick question