No pleasure in anything in life ........?!
Question: .....I feel so bored, my work is boring,. my colleagues extremely boring they just want to gossip and nothing else, my relationship with my gf of 6 years has become boring, we havent had sex in 6 months,we just eat, watch tv and then sleep, my friends just care about the chicks and cars, my house svks, when i go out to the bars i never have a good time, i never flirt anymore, i feel like a 90 year old man and i am just 28 years old........ it feels terrible.... :( any advice3? thanks !
Answers: .....I feel so bored, my work is boring,. my colleagues extremely boring they just want to gossip and nothing else, my relationship with my gf of 6 years has become boring, we havent had sex in 6 months,we just eat, watch tv and then sleep, my friends just care about the chicks and cars, my house svks, when i go out to the bars i never have a good time, i never flirt anymore, i feel like a 90 year old man and i am just 28 years old........ it feels terrible.... :( any advice3? thanks !
sounds like your depressed but i would suggest you make a list of the great things in your life and downplay the bad. you can go to the dr's and get an antidepressent and let it work for a couple of months. you know what? your 28 and not 98 and really try and remember that.....these years will not last for a really long time and the more time you spend obsessing instead of enjoying life your twenties and possible 30's will be gone. Oh dam to be 28 again! you really have no idea until those great years are gone. Many people wait for their "moments" to happen in life instead of knowing that your moment is now! start living and strive to be happy~
go see a doc your deppresed
See a therapist to help sort through the clutter in your life.
Antidepressant. You are a sure candidate. See your doctor.
Just the fact that you can still wake up in the morning is good. You still have legs, right? And you haven't gone blind or deaf? You HAVE a job...and a girlfriend, and a home and a car. BE THANKFUL for the things you have and stop pouting about what you don't. That's the secret to happiness.
Imagine how unimportant these boring things would be if you found out you were going to die from cancer in a month or two. You'd be cherishing every moment instead of whining about them....
If you're so unhappy with things, shake it up. It's your life and in your hands. Go on a vacation, take a different route to or from work, think of three things you love to do and do them all. Visit someone who makes you LAUGH OUT LOUD, that'll fix everything, for a little while at least.
you have clinical depression. if you go to an MD he will prescribe antidepressants that will help a little. if you go for counseling at the same time as taking the antidepressants, it is like getting twice the help. depression requires more than one treatment. each treatment (medication, counseling) contributes to a cure but is not in and of itself a cure on it's own. of course there is the eating right and exercising but when you are depressed you don't feel like doing those things. if you need help on how to find a counselor and one you can afford, post a new question. but you defintely have clinical depression.
yeh you really need to talk to someone...otherwise maybe take a relaxing holiday? go away with your girlfriend and really make an effort to relax and just hang out, even though you may not be that enthusiastic about it. Once you go away and start to relax you'll feel better.
But i really think you need to talk to your GP you sound like you may have some depression...
good luck...:-)
There's nothing listed that you can't change. There's also no such thing as 'bored', only 'boring'. It's a big, beautiful world out here, with more things to do and see than any one person could accomplish in one lifetime. If you can't find even ONE of those things, it's completely your fault.
Wow dude, I feel sorry for you if you can't find pleasure with any of the great things in life (sex, drugs & rock&roll).
You need to go see a shrink and get some happy pills.
I have the same problem allot of times...i guess you could say we're depressed, but i say my life is just boring. but unless theres a reason you dont, go have sex with gf. that should take care of some of it...if u cant, masturbate. add a little more caffine to your diet. thats what i did...now i feel somewhat awake during the week
Thanks for the downer. You bummed me out big time.