Finshing way to soon with new partner...?!
Question: Me and my g/f of three years broke up not to long ago and I got back into the swing of things pretty fast and been seeing someone new. The first couple time's we've had sex I have finished in the matter of pumps if not seconds.
When I was with the ex this was never an issue and when we wanted it fast I had to really work at it...
So what Im asking is why do I *** so fast with the new lady friend and never with the ex????
Answers: Me and my g/f of three years broke up not to long ago and I got back into the swing of things pretty fast and been seeing someone new. The first couple time's we've had sex I have finished in the matter of pumps if not seconds.
When I was with the ex this was never an issue and when we wanted it fast I had to really work at it...
So what Im asking is why do I *** so fast with the new lady friend and never with the ex????
It's most likely due to sheer excitement.
After a while, I'm sure you found sex with your previous girlfriend quite routine, and less exciting for you. Now that you are with someone else after such a long period of time, it is quite likely that your excitement and thus arousal levels have gone up.
It's not such a bad thing, it should show her that she really gets you going, but maybe put in the hard yards and go more than once per session. I'm sure after a while it'll all calm down a bit, but until then, it's probably a good idea.
Anything new can be exciting, anything exciting can lead to premature ejaculation.
Best best is to masturbate before you meet up with your new lady friend. You'll last longer when you actually have sex with her.
New partner,it's exciting,.. Try doing things by yourself the first time to relieve the pressure before being with your girlfriend.
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