Penis to big??!
Question: I have beeen with my fiance now for over 2 years and everytime we are intimate she is always complaining of soreness during and after. Im only like 8.5 inches, so I wouldnt think it would be unbearable. Weve tried lube, and anything we can think of that would make it easier, but NOTHING seems to work.
What can I do???
AND PS IM BEIN SERIOUS SO NO RUDE STUFF PLEASE!
Answers: I have beeen with my fiance now for over 2 years and everytime we are intimate she is always complaining of soreness during and after. Im only like 8.5 inches, so I wouldnt think it would be unbearable. Weve tried lube, and anything we can think of that would make it easier, but NOTHING seems to work.
What can I do???
AND PS IM BEIN SERIOUS SO NO RUDE STUFF PLEASE!
Well, you are a bit large, my husband was so I have been there: by the way I'm 47 and have had many boyfriends over the years.
What might REALLY be the problem is that your fiance could have problems with yeast infections or other types of vaginal warts or inflammation that is getting in the way. She should really report to this a gynecologist and be specific with them about what her problem is. Because normally the vagina is very resilient, but I've had problems in this area as well that made intercourse painful. I was also told last time I went to the gyno that baths in baking soda help reduce inflammation of vaginal tags (like the kind you find on your skin...women can get them inside the vagina).
The size never mattered when I was well from infections, but when my vagina was "sick" it sucked.
Also, give her a break! don't over do it.
Tell her take an Advil to help reduce inflammation of her tissues before and/or after intercourse and she will have less pain.
Chances are, she is suffering from something that could be helped with meds, maybe even a surgery to get rid of polyps or warts or an STD. All of these can make intercourse very hard on a woman.
It's more likely that she is having a medical problem getting in the way, because if you are using lube she should be able to handle just about anything if you are sensitive and slow.....go easy till she's excited.
Darn she might want to get that checked out at the doctor. If you two have been together that long and shes been complaining all that time something might be wrong. Your penis isnt to big thats dealing with only anal sex if she is sore there that mean you have disturbed one of the muscles in the rectum. But try to grt that checked out quickly.
you may not think so but eight and a half is kind of large the next time you have sex with her use the lube but only put in a little over 6 in. in her some women are smaller and tighter than others hope this helps
hate to tell you this but you do have a big penis. the average adult is between 5.5 and 6.2. so you may well be hurting her. the responsibility is yours to now learn to control how you use your penis to ensure she gets full satisfaction. various positions and other techniques should be experiemnted with to make you a better sex partner. and keep in mind a penis is not a battering ram; it is an organ designed to give pleasure to yoru partner.
Try getting her overly excited before penetrating. But also she may need to be checked at the doctor for endometriosis. which is something I suffer from and I sometimes it is painful for me when I have intercourse.
your considered large, my husband is 8 and he can give me some pain.. One thing is being that large you have to take it easy on her with certain positions. Like from behind is alot of penetration so take it slow.. Also when i am ontop I find that arching forward is less likely to cause discomfort, rather than sitting up strait.. I dont know why the lube hasnt worked for you, I would suggest keep trying differant ones, the ky is crap for me I try differant kinds from adult stores,, oh this may seem odd but i noticed if i have an orgasm before penetration it really helps. I think its because one im more wet then. and two im more relaxed.. i hope you find something that works.. keep trying..
It's too big for her
Too big for her, i guess
Your penis is only 8.5 inches in your mind! Stop trying to boost your own self-esteem!