My friend has trouble ejaculating. What can he do to fix this?!


Question: This has been going on for about 2 weeks. At first, he couldn't get hard and if he got hard, he would get soft. Now, he says he can't ***. I told him that it could be something psychological...something distracting him because he tends to worry about his size and about cumming too quickly/not quick enough, etc. during sex. But, he doesn't know what to do and he says it hurts him because he feels the build-up. Anyone have any suggestions/input to help him? I don't know what to tell him anymore. Thanks!

Answers: This has been going on for about 2 weeks. At first, he couldn't get hard and if he got hard, he would get soft. Now, he says he can't ***. I told him that it could be something psychological...something distracting him because he tends to worry about his size and about cumming too quickly/not quick enough, etc. during sex. But, he doesn't know what to do and he says it hurts him because he feels the build-up. Anyone have any suggestions/input to help him? I don't know what to tell him anymore. Thanks!
He needs to see a doctor like a urologist or sometimes gynecologists will order basic testing if they are accompanied by their female patient.

Most likely it's psychological, but the doctor would need to rule out any other causes, such as, hormonal, infection, or some physical defect or disease. It's impossible to guess at the cause without doing proper testing to rule different things in or out.
why don't you give him a "hand"?! Report It

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    • go to the doctors, depeding on how old he is. i went before and i had to get drunk to book an appointment or i wudnt have booked one. or book one for him then take him there unknwingly/! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
    That must hurt XD
    no such thing as build up.
    he wants in YOUR pants.
    If he is married and does not want sex with you, why is he even discussing it with you? Shouldn't this be a topic for him to discuss with his WIFE and/or doctor?!
    Probably, a guilty conscience.
    He should go to his GP , and rule out any underlying illness . maybe something like high blood pressure
    If the issue is not physical then yes it is most likely psychological and the GP can refer him for more specialised advice.
    Why would he be telling you about it. If you're that close, grab on and do it for him, bet that makes it work.
    Emily, he's full of cr*p! Believe me, he want's IN YOUR PANT'S !! Suggestion's ? sure,,tell him to ask for it like a man, and quit "snivel'ing". I hope that help's,,,,,,,


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