Can you plzzzz help me? I am in dire straits.?!
Question: I am now 28 yrs of age. i have the habit of masturbation since i was 16. But i never had the practice of doing it in an excessive manner (more or less 2-3 times/wk). But now I am feeling a bit exhausted I mean i dont feel that much stimulated/ excitement during masturbation - and the penis is not getting that hard as it used to be before. It looks like i am loosing my sexual feeling and and i perceive that even the hottest lady in the town does not turn me on anymore. i feel like the bloods and the hormones are not flowing right. Also the amount of semen that i ejaculate looks to me have decreased. And i cant produce multiple orgasm (i mean once i have ejaculated i am finished for that day).
I am really scared and anxious about it. can u guys tell me whats wrong with me and how can i recover from this problem.
i am supposed to get married probably this July. My recent sexual problem really makes me cry - how can i think about it??
I am eagerly awaiting ur good advices!!!! plz help me
Answers: I am now 28 yrs of age. i have the habit of masturbation since i was 16. But i never had the practice of doing it in an excessive manner (more or less 2-3 times/wk). But now I am feeling a bit exhausted I mean i dont feel that much stimulated/ excitement during masturbation - and the penis is not getting that hard as it used to be before. It looks like i am loosing my sexual feeling and and i perceive that even the hottest lady in the town does not turn me on anymore. i feel like the bloods and the hormones are not flowing right. Also the amount of semen that i ejaculate looks to me have decreased. And i cant produce multiple orgasm (i mean once i have ejaculated i am finished for that day).
I am really scared and anxious about it. can u guys tell me whats wrong with me and how can i recover from this problem.
i am supposed to get married probably this July. My recent sexual problem really makes me cry - how can i think about it??
I am eagerly awaiting ur good advices!!!! plz help me
go see a doctor. It does not seem like a big deal because what you are saying sounds normal. A good idea is cease doing it for some time. Ya, you are older a bit but just lay off. If you love the girl your marrying, it will all work out. I am older than you and I have been married over twenty years. Sexual desires and escapades are not like they were before for sure but I still have them. It wouldnt hurt to talk to a doctor that deals with that so they can give ya some insight. Dont worry.....
just stop for a cupple weeks i think ur over reacting
Relax!!! it's your nerves...there's nothing wrong with you. Plus as you get older, your sex drive changes remember that. I also believe your just anxious about your wedding day. A lot is going on, so relax.
You're older now, and all that happens to just about everyone. If you do it less you will become more arroused. Plus you'll have an extra 1/2 hour to do something else (yah I know so what). Don't worry about upcoming wedding you'll be fine, just don't masturbate for 2-3 days before wedding. As that other famous saying goes absence makes the heart grow fonder so it goes, absence makes the penis more aroused and quicker to respond.
Men have their sexual peak (where their body works the best) at 18, where women have their peak around 30 to 35.
As a result it is normal that your sexual response becomes slower, and it will continue to get less and less with the years, this is how our bodies work.
At 18 you can masturbate a couple times a day where at 28 you might only feel like doing it a couple times a week, this is how getting older works for all of us, there is no reason to be anxious about it.
When you get married stop masturbating to save up all your energy for your partner. Over time you guys will slow down your sex to 1-2 a week, and after many years less than that, this is how life goes.
I would focus on what's important in life and just get on with it. Psychological help is something you might consider...........
awww dont cry
congrats on the wedding
i would ask your doctor
he/she would know better then us
and he can give you "happy pills"