Plz plz plz guyz help me ........ i am really in some trouble?!
Question: I am now 28 yrs of age. i have the habit of masturbation since i was 16. But i never had the practice of doing it in an excessive manner (more or less 2-3 times/wk). But now I am feeling a bit exhausted I mean i dont feel that much stimulated/ excitement during masturbation - and the penis is not getting that hard as it used to be before. It looks like i am loosing my sexual feeling and and i perceive that even the hottest lady in the town does not turn me on anymore. i feel like the bloods and the hormones are not flowing right. Also the amount of semen that i ejaculate looks to me have decreased. And i cant produce multiple orgasm (i mean once i have ejaculated i am finished for that day).
I am really scared and anxious about it. can u guys tell me whats wrong with me and how can i recover from this problem.
i am supposed to get married probably this July. My recent sexual problem really makes me cry - how can i think about it??
I am eagerly awaiting ur good advices!!!! plz help me
Answers: I am now 28 yrs of age. i have the habit of masturbation since i was 16. But i never had the practice of doing it in an excessive manner (more or less 2-3 times/wk). But now I am feeling a bit exhausted I mean i dont feel that much stimulated/ excitement during masturbation - and the penis is not getting that hard as it used to be before. It looks like i am loosing my sexual feeling and and i perceive that even the hottest lady in the town does not turn me on anymore. i feel like the bloods and the hormones are not flowing right. Also the amount of semen that i ejaculate looks to me have decreased. And i cant produce multiple orgasm (i mean once i have ejaculated i am finished for that day).
I am really scared and anxious about it. can u guys tell me whats wrong with me and how can i recover from this problem.
i am supposed to get married probably this July. My recent sexual problem really makes me cry - how can i think about it??
I am eagerly awaiting ur good advices!!!! plz help me
The first thing you need to know is: Do not stress over it! There is plenty of solutions and people to talk to even though its a delicate issue.
Your doctor probably will be the right person to start talking to!
What your doctor wont tell you is that if you have been experimenting (have you had, received anal sexs?, in case yes u need to talk to your doctor, because nature will take its course!, but u can give up and do a cold turkey and get in shape for June), you might have trouble getting in your previous state easily!
But you can try to go to the gym more often, and doing some running, since it regenerates your body and might get across this hurdles quite easily!
You also need the help of sup[erfoods, try reading about foods and super foods properties and you will see that they will help you!
Herbs as well will help, but try to not rely on them to much!
Also fish oils will make the difference as soon as yoiu tfry them!
Try triple omega, they will stopp u from feeling agitated and set ur mind in a more relaxed state!
You ll se the results in no time!
see a doctor. he could probably help you more.
Don't masturbate. WWJD? :)
You're probably stressed out. Try running. Control what you can, try not to worry about what you can't, right?
give it a break man! You're wearing the poor thing out! OVERSTIMULATION!
You could have a physical or an emotional problem. Your first step should really be to see your doctor. This sort of thing can be embarrassing to talk about, but if you don't feel comfortable bringing it up with your doctor, you may need to find a new doctor who you are comfortable with. There can be real, physical reasons for loss of desire that can be treated.
There could also be some psychological reasons behind what you're going through, but you need to get the physical questions answered first. If you don't have anything physically going on, then the issue could be stress-related or something deeper. But keep in mind that if it is an emotional issue, stressing, fixating and worrying about it can build upon itself. That's why it's a good thing to seek help, starting with your doctor.
dude just calm down. all you have to do is not play with mr. willie for a while and then when u finally do, it will be great!
what you should probably do is just stop playing with yourself for a while, then, when you have sex with your partner your penis will be up for the job and be harder than ever!
but i guess if it is still the same after you havnt done it for a while then you might want to see a docter and he could explain it a lot better.
don't worry to much, it probably isn't to serious.
Well all i can say is find things you like to do & get your mind off of it. Almost every guy do it & sick of doing it but are sex drive is so easy to turn on by women. I have done it alot & almost all week & month. Just about for almost 2 years & its hard to stop. The reason i started doing it Is because i had nothing to do & women was coming in my head alot more. The time i started was 15 & it went to alot to not that much. One time i stop for a half of year & it was because i had things to do & i also workout all the time. Women wasn't on my mind that much & when i got a girlfriend i started again but when i was happy with & did fun things that i wanted to do. It stop because i wasn't in that much pain & sadness but when we broke up, I started again because i let women in my mind again. I felt lonely & wanted a women to hug on to talk too.
You're probably a bit freaked out about the marriage in July, so you started masturbating more, overworked the system and now panic is making things worse. Relax, stop masturbating, rest the system. It's just the fear and panic, racing around like a rat on a wheel. Be calm. You cannot 'feel' blood and hormones flowing. It's the panic. Same with the hottest lady in town not turning you on. This is not masturbation affecting your vision. That's the panic, too. Relax, be calm, take it easy. Do something else for a bit, take your mind off things, relax, be calm, take it easy.
stop masturbation for two weeks!!!
Perhaps you're bored of yourself??..
Try something new,..like dating..then you can go crazy and get all kinds of things at the adult stores. You can't possibly be bored there.