Why does my husband masturbate sometimes instead of intercourse w/me?!
Question: I have an extemely healthy sex drive and never turn sex down with my partner. He sometimes turns me down.Why does he masturbate sometimes instead of having sex with me? I completely inderstand his need to masturbate if Im "not available".We do have intercourse 3 or more time a week.I feel like he masturbates instead cause he's sick of me or like Im not what turns him on.
Thank you for your help.
Answers: I have an extemely healthy sex drive and never turn sex down with my partner. He sometimes turns me down.Why does he masturbate sometimes instead of having sex with me? I completely inderstand his need to masturbate if Im "not available".We do have intercourse 3 or more time a week.I feel like he masturbates instead cause he's sick of me or like Im not what turns him on.
Thank you for your help.
It could be that he doesn't want to invest the time in pleasuring you that one evening. (That sounds terrible but it isn't as bad as it seems) Try not to look at this as a bad thing, he just doesn't want to dissappoint you and rather than have you unsatisfied he opts out completely. us men, we spend our entire lives trying to make the love of our lives happy. It is the sunshine in our day and gravity at our feet.
However, it can sometimes be more than we have energy for.
Sometime, away from the bedroom, completely off topic during the day or something... tell him that sometimes you just love a "quicky".
Make certain that he understands that it doesn't have to be a marathon session everytime. (I am a Dom and sometimes I feel as if my girlfriend expects a protracted night of BDSM to satisfy her)
He's thinking about some other woman or porn. That way, he can spill his seed without cheating on you.
no that is not the reason why he does it....You know what they says 'no body knows your body better then you do" lol... don't worry so much....take care
try masterbed him
He doesn't have to worry about pleasing you if he's masturbating.
I'm 22 and it's nothing in this world better than intercourse with a female so I sure don't understand a guy that would want to do this. Now it can be fun to masturbate each other, give oral, and then have great sex. I feel something is wrong when a guy does this and it's not you sexy lady.
i suggest toning down the number of times you have sex during the week. that way he's going to crave being with you. sounds twisted, but i'm sure it'll work!
Its a different feeling when a men or women masturbate the climax is much better I no this for a fact that's way allot of people play with themselves, It has nothing to do w/you. Also it might be a habit that he picked up in his younger years. He probably haven't even noticed that you're aware of his actions. The next time he masturbate do it with him you'll turn him on and every time he plays with himself he will want you to join him a men loves to watch their Lady's nude body gyrate while they pleasing themselves. Girl it's all about 4 play. If he's not witching XXX movies while doing it than you have nothing to weary about
u better consolte a doctor for him maybe he cant do sex
try letting him look at you down there when he masterbates
Honestly, and I'm basing this off my own feelings/experience, masturbation is a helluva lot easier than sex.
Sometimes, sex almost feels like work for us guys, because first we have to turn you girls on, then we have to get you off. For us, we're turned on in about 10 seconds, and are ready to get off in about 5 minutes. Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but sometimes I prefer to just beat off rather than spend 15 minutes making out and then 15-20 minutes having sex to reach the same goal.
If he has intercourse with you three times a week he's not tired of you. It does sound like he might be masturbating a little too much though. I'd prefer rolling in the hay with you.