Am i egoist if i dont let my BF give me or.al?!
Question: am i egoist if i dont let my BF give me or.al s.ex?
i'm sorry i dont mean to be such an immature girl,
it's just i never do that before, i dont think i will like it, and sometimes i'm just worried that it will taste bad and he will be disgusted,
and...well... i just dont feel comfortable about it..
am i egoist to refuse everytime he wants to do it?
(never do that until now -we have been dating for 1 year, have had sex and gave him head a couple of times)
he keep asking me about it
should i just let him do it even though i feel really umm.. shy.. and uncomfortable?
Answers: am i egoist if i dont let my BF give me or.al s.ex?
i'm sorry i dont mean to be such an immature girl,
it's just i never do that before, i dont think i will like it, and sometimes i'm just worried that it will taste bad and he will be disgusted,
and...well... i just dont feel comfortable about it..
am i egoist to refuse everytime he wants to do it?
(never do that until now -we have been dating for 1 year, have had sex and gave him head a couple of times)
he keep asking me about it
should i just let him do it even though i feel really umm.. shy.. and uncomfortable?
Okay, I didnt let my boyfriend do that for 2 years. It really started to bug him. I had all the same worries as you do. But guys really seem to love it, I dont know why but I think they get harder by being able to do that. Not to promote drinking and such but maybe if you two have a couple drinks and relax you could do a 69 position, that way you will have something else to occupy you besides worry. After that you should be more comfortable with it! Good luck, we all have fears over our bodies but somebody who loves you truly doesnt care.
just get really really drunk
and let him go down on you
it will feel good
i worry that too, but they never actually care. do it if you feel comfortable, you could really enjoy it.
whats your favorite food? you did not know it was your favorite till you tried it once, did you? see my point?
why would he want to give you oral? thats really strange that he wants to do that, but if he reallllly wants it, i guess you should let him. maybe teach him to be careful what he wishes for
Make sure he understands how uncomfortable you are with it. Remember you have to take care of yourself first, don't do sexual things that you don't want to do. But, if he's really interested, and you don't feel too awkward, then go for it.
If the only reason stopping you from experiencing this is the scent/taste, let him know exactly how you feel, that you're worried about how you would taste or smell. All us girls worry about our scent/taste from time to time and usually we are just being overly self conscious. Give it a try, you might find that you thoroughly enjoy it.
If you have other reasons for declining his offer, then stick with that. No one should force you to do something you are uncomfortable with.
As long as you keep yourself clean and fresh (down you know where) you should be fine. I'm sure your BF knows from talking to other guys that it doesn't taste like his favorite flavor of ice cream or something. So try it, you might both really enjoy it.
Don't do it if you are totally uncomfortable. But it does feel pretty good and you should really give it a try! Just to feel extra confident, get a shower right before you get physical so you are extra fresh!!! You should also remember that as women, our scent is much stronger to us than it is to men and it may smell "stinky" to us, but perfectly normal to guys. Good luck and have fun!
First, if your worried make sure you've had a shower or something. Better yet, make him have a shower with you, us boys can be pretty grubby down there as well. It'll also help get you guys in the mood and comfortable with each others bodies.
If your worried about how your fluid tastes, drinking plenty of pineapple juice can help sweeten you up a bit. A healthy diet will help a lot actually. Also, you can have your BF put a candy into your vagina while he's down there to really get things tasting good.
It sounds like your just not being "turned on" and relaxed enough. Try and get him to not go straight for the vagina. Work on foreplay and kissing first, let him tease you a bit, work his way in while massaging your thighs and stomach. Make him read some how to guides online about giving great oral. Don't be scared to tell him what you want and like. Tell him that you want to explore and give him heaps of reassurance. Once he gets to know what really makes you tick, you'll love it!
If you like giving him head, why shouldn't he return the favour? Never have any inhibitions about sex stuff, it's your body, you can enjoy it as much as you like.
. 'Ego' has NOthing to do with it.
It's just worry about the ordor and smell. And you SHOULD be! It's all sweaty and leaky and stuff, of course it's NOT gonna be fresh as Mom's Apple Pie!
Wash IT! Or have the b/f use a warm , clean [NO soap] washcloth and scrub your fuzzy li'l beaver for a few minutes.
IF you have to, there are flavored douches for you. ...or lubricantes. You are NOT the first girl to ever do this, ya'know. and you WILL get a Thrill when his tongue touches the clit! wooo.
Hey, if he wants to do it and doesn't like it, it's his fault. And I doubt that he won't like it. I mean, there is a lot of dirty things going on in the bedroom in the first place...
mine doesnt either, it might be a confidence thing