Embarrassing problem with my erections.. please help!!?!
Question: its not so much getting it up but keeping it up, i have gone soft at least 5 times during S-e-x with my girlfriend over the past 3 weeks, considering this has never happened before i am concerned, also sicne the first time i have gone soft, i feel as if my b-oners are not as stiff as they were before, this is not only with my girlfriend.. at first i thoguht she was the problem.. like i didnt think i was sexually attracted to her anymore.. but even when i am alone and masturbait it has never been the same siffness or size as it was before that first time i went soft! i am stuck here.. i am only 18 and i dont think i have ED.. but i am worried.. please help! i havent masturbaited until i tried a couple of different ways becasue i thoguht it was her.. tried everyhting. did it over the phone with the girl, watched porn, jsut thoguht about stuff and did it alone.. nothing worked.. problem is if i start up while im with her.. i get one but its not as big as usual and
Answers: its not so much getting it up but keeping it up, i have gone soft at least 5 times during S-e-x with my girlfriend over the past 3 weeks, considering this has never happened before i am concerned, also sicne the first time i have gone soft, i feel as if my b-oners are not as stiff as they were before, this is not only with my girlfriend.. at first i thoguht she was the problem.. like i didnt think i was sexually attracted to her anymore.. but even when i am alone and masturbait it has never been the same siffness or size as it was before that first time i went soft! i am stuck here.. i am only 18 and i dont think i have ED.. but i am worried.. please help! i havent masturbaited until i tried a couple of different ways becasue i thoguht it was her.. tried everyhting. did it over the phone with the girl, watched porn, jsut thoguht about stuff and did it alone.. nothing worked.. problem is if i start up while im with her.. i get one but its not as big as usual and
I can tell you what I think it is. I bet the first time it happened, it freaked you out. You started worrying about it and that made it happen again. Same when you are by yourself. You are worried that things aren't going right so you are checking yourself out. That makes it happen again. Try to not ejaculate for about 4 days then see if things change for you again.
See a Doctor - sometimes this is a sign of a more serious problem - I know its embarrassing but your doctor has seen much much worse!!
Also - if you are taking steroids or smoking a lot of weed - this can be a side effect.
you need to see your doctor. ED can be a symptom of an underlying medical condition. However, at your age, it is most likely due to stress of some sort, or anxiety. Don't dwell on it.
ok i can help you here for sure.
1st- are you under a lot of stress. Stress can play a ton of games with your peniis. If you are stressed try to find ways to elivate them
now for your ntural cure: Buy two products ( i use them)
Tribulus and Maca- this will make you drill holes in steel. I swear by this stuff.its natural and good for you.
you can get both in a powder form but i recommend buying them in capsules. It taste horrible in powdr ofrm.
Your problem is not just a phase you are going through. All males probably go soft now and then but not as much as you are. At your age you should get so hard that a tom cat can`t scratch it and stay that way until you ejaculate. See a medical doctor and tell him your problem.
Im sure there is something you can take to solve your problem your doctor can give you advice or tips
Have you recently started on any meds?
Are you currently undergoing a stressful situation?
Both these issues can affect erections.
I suggest you simply give nude massages for now, until you feel erect & capable of sex, & then resume your sex.
This happened to me the first time I did it too. I got really worried to cuz i'm 19 and i didn't know what to do. I think i was stressed out plus my friends were next door so that definately didn't help. The next time I tried, we turned off the lights (they were on the first time) and just went with the flow. try just relaxing and feeling in the mood. foreplay is really important to get you in the mood.