Impotence??? Or is it me???!
Question: Me and my man havent have sex for about 10 months ( I didnt want sex during my second or third trimester of pregnancy). Now I have a sex drive again... finally.
Today we were both really excited I could feel he was hard. He pleasured me then after words or conversation went like this
me- that made my day, now I will make yours
him- Im good
me- *baffled* WhAT???? Why would you say that?
him- Im good... but you could make it great
I then try all the spots that would normally have him "UP" and excited in seconds but nothing. I tried grinding him but he was still soft. It was really awkward for both of us. I didnt know what to say. He was hard B4.... but now it was gone and not coming back :S ??
Do you think he has an impotence problem and he was embarrassed? Or do you think Im not attractive to him anymore? Were both in our early 20's non smokers and fit how could he be impotent?
Answers: Me and my man havent have sex for about 10 months ( I didnt want sex during my second or third trimester of pregnancy). Now I have a sex drive again... finally.
Today we were both really excited I could feel he was hard. He pleasured me then after words or conversation went like this
me- that made my day, now I will make yours
him- Im good
me- *baffled* WhAT???? Why would you say that?
him- Im good... but you could make it great
I then try all the spots that would normally have him "UP" and excited in seconds but nothing. I tried grinding him but he was still soft. It was really awkward for both of us. I didnt know what to say. He was hard B4.... but now it was gone and not coming back :S ??
Do you think he has an impotence problem and he was embarrassed? Or do you think Im not attractive to him anymore? Were both in our early 20's non smokers and fit how could he be impotent?
Sweetheart calm down, you have not had sex for 10 months so he has got out of the habit, if you were not attractive to him then he would not still be with you. It just takes a little time, try just masturbation for the first few times and if you are both in to oral try that a few times before doing all of that and then moving in to intercourse. He may have ejaculated when as you say pleasuring you and that was why you could not arouse him, don't make a big of it you will find that all will get back on track
Maybe it just wasn't his day, stresses, or other things could be up on him. Alcohol also makes some so that they cant get 'up'.
If all else fails, there is no shame in getting some suppliments for ED.
Hope this problem is solved, for the both of you!
he's just afraid or your love.
it's not your fault.
the guy probably used his hand SO much that
he's not able to perform in bed because of it.
If he was hard before odds are he isn't impotent. He probably needed to gain his energy again after "pleasuring" you. In those ten months he probably lost his sex drive. But as you all make love more often he'll gain it again. Hope this helps.